OldbutSTRONG said:
want to. Unless we see it with our own eyes we have to assume she's being faithful. But I wouldn't count on it. There's not too many females that are loyal. We just like to believe it. Or rather the one we chose never cheated or isn't thinking of cheating.
True, you can't spend 24/7 with her, but you can craft and define what female cheating means for you and what the consequences will be for your wayward LTR if it happens.
Then, if you are confronted with a behavior by her which violates your 'rules' ,you are forearmed and prepared . Whether you bring the hammer down or just walk away is then your choice.
THe absolute worst situation for a guy is to be blindsided by a woman's flirty/cheating behavior.. Prepare yourself for the day when you observe her getting all over another guy or just being touchy feely with some random diude at a party. IT may neve happen, but if it does you need to be ready to move swiftly and harshly.
Unless you can refer to your internalized 'rules of engagement' when cheating happens, you are likely to be further blindsided by her BS 'explanation' of why she was doing what she was doing .
