"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How much bull**** should i say?

Zeus

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I consider myself a smooth and charming guy, and i have always been faithful. Now i'am singel.. and i look good. But i have never been a player, the questions i'am having is. How much bull**** should i tell a girl to get what i want "Sex" ? Where do u draw the line?

How many girls have u had at the same time? And how do u make the time for all of them.

Hehe its time to have fun guys!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do you need to lie about stuff? A DJ can attract girls by telling the truth about himself because he's that exciting. If you need to lie to make yourself more exciting you got more work to do.
 

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Oh really, so when a girl ask me where u been last night?

I should then say: I was ****ing this other girl... =)


Heheh
 

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When a girl I'm attracted to asks me where I was, I tell them the truth. I just don't go into specifics.

If I was at home with another girl, I tell them I was at home.
If I was at the girls place, I tell them I was out and about. Stopped at a friends house, stopped at the store, etc.

Then I ask them if they are so curious, why didn't they call me and ask.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How much bullshi*? Not one word more than necessary. If you feel the need to lie so much, it means you can talk the talk but you can't walk the walk. Plus with all those lies you have to manage, one day you're going to mess up and blow your cover.

The only time I'd see the necessity to lie is if you need to get yourself out of a tight spot. Try to deflect those dangerous questions by giving a 'similar' answer instead of straight out crap. It'll be much easier to sound convincing.
 
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I used to consider myself a major player, but I never used bull shyt to get the panties. I think you like many others on this site are buying a load of do hickie about being a player.

Getting the panties isn't a matter of spouting off bull shyt lines. I think the Double your Dating dude mentioned in his current program that 7% is verbal. I agree with that mostly.


Last summer I met a tall 6'3 blond life guard instructor outside of a club. I said less than 50 words to her and still boned her at her friends house that night.

It's the way you come accross that's more important than the words.
 
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