"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how much attention should i give a girl if she is in my class?

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this has always puzzled me, i know how to act on a date, how to act alone, but when i see this girl every day in class should i vary the amount of attention given her? occasionally completely ignore her one day, close kino the second, and casually on the third?

or should i remain consistent in my behaviour?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Depends on how she talks to you while you're talking to her.

If you get two bad reactions, just stop.
 
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when i ignore her, she tend to initiate conversation or say hi to me,

when i act warm and charming she comes alone quite eagerly too.

but the problem is, i see her every day at school, so its harder to be a challenge/mystery...i know i could probably next her to make it easier, but certainly wouldn't mind keeping her.

so, my different behaviours is just there to reinforce my unpredictable persona. OR would a warm attitude be better?

thanks again
 

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its never hard to be a challenge, or mystery. never reveal too much about yourself, never dominate the conversation.

mix things up, one day be all flirty and stuff, the next day act as if shes no big deal. talk to her like you would with some kid off the street. push/pull baby
 

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theory of knowledge said:
this has always puzzled me, i know how to act on a date, how to act alone, but when i see this girl every day in class should i vary the amount of attention given her? occasionally completely ignore her one day, close kino the second, and casually on the third?

or should i remain consistent in my behaviour?
Heres the only answer&fact:LET IT BE NATURAL
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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