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how much attention should i give a girl if she is in my class?

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this has always puzzled me, i know how to act on a date, how to act alone, but when i see this girl every day in class should i vary the amount of attention given her? occasionally completely ignore her one day, close kino the second, and casually on the third?

or should i remain consistent in my behaviour?
 

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Depends on how she talks to you while you're talking to her.

If you get two bad reactions, just stop.
 
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when i ignore her, she tend to initiate conversation or say hi to me,

when i act warm and charming she comes alone quite eagerly too.

but the problem is, i see her every day at school, so its harder to be a challenge/mystery...i know i could probably next her to make it easier, but certainly wouldn't mind keeping her.

so, my different behaviours is just there to reinforce my unpredictable persona. OR would a warm attitude be better?

thanks again
 

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its never hard to be a challenge, or mystery. never reveal too much about yourself, never dominate the conversation.

mix things up, one day be all flirty and stuff, the next day act as if shes no big deal. talk to her like you would with some kid off the street. push/pull baby
 

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theory of knowledge said:
this has always puzzled me, i know how to act on a date, how to act alone, but when i see this girl every day in class should i vary the amount of attention given her? occasionally completely ignore her one day, close kino the second, and casually on the third?

or should i remain consistent in my behaviour?
Heres the only answer&fact:LET IT BE NATURAL
 

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