"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how much attention seeking is acceptable?

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all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?

it seems every woman i've approached in public during the day who is receptive to my charms has turned out to be an attention wh0re of some sort. how much attention seeking is acceptable in your books? is her putting sexually provocative photos on facebook acceptable? red flag to me. her having mainly male friends on her facebook? red flag. her blogging on the internet about her dating experiences? red flag again.

i know in the US you have far more people so it's possible to find a good wholesome girl who's attractive yet not as much of an attention wh0re. but in europe it seems every hot girl is an attention wh0re due to less people. if all women are attention seekers how much of it do you have to accept?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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big weezy said:
all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?QUOTE]

I would handsomely reward anyone who came up with a practical answer to that question. They seem to be extinct, but my newest theory is that the good ones are all taken.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
big weezy said:
all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?QUOTE]

I would handsomely reward anyone who came up with a practical answer to that question. They seem to be extinct, but my newest theory is that the good ones are all taken.
i imagine also in your situation is must be harder cos if say hypothetically you were looking for a woman who was over 35 she inevitably has already been married or had kids etc.. i.e. baggage.. and i've noticed as a woman gets into her 30s and hasn't settled properly or has gone through a divorce they start to go a bit nuts in the head questioning everything they do and avoid certain horoscope types like scorpios etc.. i find so many women i've encountered who are in their late 30s.. well really crazy. like they're cans left on the shelf past their sell by date.

i dont know if you're looking for women in their 20s yourself as your 55 but i imagine it must be much harder if you're looking between an age range of 30-55 for something serious as inevitably.. they'll have baggage and issues.

i personally think it depends on their profession and what the competition is like, like in europe though there are lots of attractive women.. there isn't a variety of personalities of attractive women which i think you may get in the US due to just law of averages and sheer numbers that inevitably you'll find a school teacher or nurse or humanitarian type who actually is stable and attractive rather than a party attention seeking wh0re who plasters herself over facebook to get an ego boost.

it's almost like we have to accept and adapt to their wants and needs or cut them loose. seems like a losing battle, in 5 years i've not encountered one female who wasn't a complete attention seeker irrespective if she was attractive or not.
 

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the question still is though.... how much attention seeking behavior would you deem acceptable?

like where do you draw the line?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher said:
big weezy said:
all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?QUOTE]

I would handsomely reward anyone who came up with a practical answer to that question. They seem to be extinct, but my newest theory is that the good ones are all taken.
no attention seeking that trivializes or mocks the man is EVER acceptable..

remove all political and economic rights from women and make them the property of their fathers then their husbands once more.

deep down women yearn to be owned..completely utterly..

not a practical solution sadly; fort this may never come to pass in the western world because the current generation of men are a bunch of spineless faggots who have become women themselves
 
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