"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how much attention seeking is acceptable?

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all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?

it seems every woman i've approached in public during the day who is receptive to my charms has turned out to be an attention wh0re of some sort. how much attention seeking is acceptable in your books? is her putting sexually provocative photos on facebook acceptable? red flag to me. her having mainly male friends on her facebook? red flag. her blogging on the internet about her dating experiences? red flag again.

i know in the US you have far more people so it's possible to find a good wholesome girl who's attractive yet not as much of an attention wh0re. but in europe it seems every hot girl is an attention wh0re due to less people. if all women are attention seekers how much of it do you have to accept?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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big weezy said:
all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?QUOTE]

I would handsomely reward anyone who came up with a practical answer to that question. They seem to be extinct, but my newest theory is that the good ones are all taken.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
big weezy said:
all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?QUOTE]

I would handsomely reward anyone who came up with a practical answer to that question. They seem to be extinct, but my newest theory is that the good ones are all taken.
i imagine also in your situation is must be harder cos if say hypothetically you were looking for a woman who was over 35 she inevitably has already been married or had kids etc.. i.e. baggage.. and i've noticed as a woman gets into her 30s and hasn't settled properly or has gone through a divorce they start to go a bit nuts in the head questioning everything they do and avoid certain horoscope types like scorpios etc.. i find so many women i've encountered who are in their late 30s.. well really crazy. like they're cans left on the shelf past their sell by date.

i dont know if you're looking for women in their 20s yourself as your 55 but i imagine it must be much harder if you're looking between an age range of 30-55 for something serious as inevitably.. they'll have baggage and issues.

i personally think it depends on their profession and what the competition is like, like in europe though there are lots of attractive women.. there isn't a variety of personalities of attractive women which i think you may get in the US due to just law of averages and sheer numbers that inevitably you'll find a school teacher or nurse or humanitarian type who actually is stable and attractive rather than a party attention seeking wh0re who plasters herself over facebook to get an ego boost.

it's almost like we have to accept and adapt to their wants and needs or cut them loose. seems like a losing battle, in 5 years i've not encountered one female who wasn't a complete attention seeker irrespective if she was attractive or not.
 

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the question still is though.... how much attention seeking behavior would you deem acceptable?

like where do you draw the line?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Atom Smasher said:
big weezy said:
all i seem to find on here is that all women are attention wh0res/attention seekers and especially if they're hot. with all the red flags we have to look out for, how are we suppose to find a good wholesome girl who isn't an excessive attention seeker/wh0re?QUOTE]

I would handsomely reward anyone who came up with a practical answer to that question. They seem to be extinct, but my newest theory is that the good ones are all taken.
no attention seeking that trivializes or mocks the man is EVER acceptable..

remove all political and economic rights from women and make them the property of their fathers then their husbands once more.

deep down women yearn to be owned..completely utterly..

not a practical solution sadly; fort this may never come to pass in the western world because the current generation of men are a bunch of spineless faggots who have become women themselves
 
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