How much affection do you show after sex ?

[His airness]

I banged a girl a month ago and we'll meet again next week. Couldnt do it earlier because she had covid...
Anyway ,i'm trying to set this up as a fwb thing.
She's affectionate with sweet talk and **** like that.i get it that i can't get into her frame but i still got to feed her some breadcrumbs..which is my problem , finding the balance. The first time i was too cold to her and now i'm trying to find that sweet spot...any advice ?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Blow her back out. If she initiates cuddling let her have it.

You guys overplay this alpha distant stuff too hard. If it’s the girls idea just go with it. Then you go home and do keep the normal communication pattern until the next date.

 

[B80]

I usually ask her to spoon me, then I start sobbing.

 

[RickTheToad]

Not much. Clean up and move on.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

I banged a girl a month ago and we'll meet again next week. Couldnt do it earlier because she had covid...
Anyway ,i'm trying to set this up as a fwb thing.
She's affectionate with sweet talk and **** like that.i get it that i can't get into her frame but i still got to feed her some breadcrumbs..which is my problem , finding the balance. The first time i was too cold to her and now i'm trying to find that sweet spot...any advice ?

Depends on the connection. I'm not against a little cuddle sesh after sex if the connection is right.

Most times, you want to get up, put your clothes back on, and split.



Modern Man Advice

 

[The Duke]

Throw her a towel and say you have to go.

 

[Stuffnu]

Affectionate snoring.

 

[DonBud94]

I nap after

 

[Grounded eagle]

Little to no affection if it’s the first time.If it’s a ONS,conveniently fall asleep after the fact.If it’s a real relationship,consider being a little warmer.

 

[jimwho]

I usually ask her to spoon me, then I start sobbing.

Bwaahaaahaaaa

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

I banged a girl a month ago and we'll meet again next week. Couldnt do it earlier because she had covid...
Anyway ,i'm trying to set this up as a fwb thing.
She's affectionate with sweet talk and **** like that.i get it that i can't get into her frame but i still got to feed her some breadcrumbs..which is my problem , finding the balance. The first time i was too cold to her and now i'm trying to find that sweet spot...any advice ?

That 'sweet spot' depends on you, not her. Whatever feels good to you is the 'sweet spot', because there's no magic recipe that will make things work out with her with 0% chance of failure. A woman wants you to be happy and comfortable, and if you happen to be a guy that doesn't like much cuddling after sex, it'll come to light one way or another eventually, so just express yourself and let the chips fall where they may. It might be a deal breaker to her, or your unwavering attitude about it might be too sexy to pass up.

If you're cold with her sounds like you don't really like her, so why the hell are you fuucking her or spending any time with her?

 

[indiff]

Throw her a towel and say you have to go.

I have never done this. Do you get better results by doing this in terms of establishing frame and value? I always lie for a bit with her head on my chest after peeing.

 

[The Duke]

I have never done this. Do you get better results by doing this in terms of establishing frame and value? I always lie for a bit with her head on my chest after peeing.

I was just joking I'd never do anything like that. I'd snuggle up to a hooker all nite if she wasn't charging me. Haha