"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how metrosexual am I ?

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I had a "plesant" discussion here with someone about being gay. He called me a metrosexual since homosexuality does not apply to me, here is a list of things I do to take care of my body, guys, is this "too much" ? I live in europe btw, in a country without a macho culture, anyway here it is.

- my nails are always cut
- my face is always shaved
- my hair below my head is always trimmed/shaved, that includes chest, under arms, "down there"
- my haircut is important to me
- I always smell neutral OR good (I use deo/perfume)
- my clothes are important to me, NO, I dont buy some crazy catalogues, I dont follow fashion, but I like to dress WELL
- I have different glasses, for work, to go out, etc

does this sound gay/metrosexual ? does it mean in YOUR eyes that Im not a "man" ? I repeat, I'm only interested in women.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ice882

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no...that's called not being a scrub.
 
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Acq said:
I had a "plesant" discussion here with someone about being gay. He called me a metrosexual since homosexuality does not apply to me, here is a list of things I do to take care of my body, guys, is this "too much" ? I like in europe btw, in a country without a macho culture, anyway here it is.

- my nails are always cut
- my face is always shaved
- my hair below my head is always trimmed/shaved, that inclused chest, under arms, "down there"
- my haircut is important to me
- I always smell neutral OR good (I use deo/perfume)
- my clothes are important to me, NO, I dont buy some crazy catalogues, I dont follow fashion, but I like to dress WELL
- I have different glasses, for work, to go out, etc

does this sound gay/metrosexual ? does it mean in YOUR eyes that Im not a "man" ? I repeat, I'm only interested in women.
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There is nothing wrong with any of the above.
 
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Maybe try diesel fuel for cologne and see if anyone calls you a metrosexual then!
 
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That's being a guy who takes pride in what he does.... (not being a jay)

All those things are things that I do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd say you're somewhere between fabulously metrosexual and super-duper metrosexual.
 
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Acq said:
- my nails are always cut
- my face is always shaved
- my hair below my head is always trimmed/shaved, that inclused chest, under arms, "down there"
- my haircut is important to me
- I always smell neutral OR good (I use deo/perfume)
- my clothes are important to me, NO, I dont buy some crazy catalogues, I dont follow fashion, but I like to dress WELL
- I have different glasses, for work, to go out, etc
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If you were living in the 1950's, the above would have been considered normal, respectable and expected by everyone in the general public. But you have to understand the warped mind of the masses influenced by magazines and TV.

This is what it was like in 50's and before

Be who you are not what others think you are.
 
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Depends on your haircut and your clothes.

Depends on the way you walk and where you place your hands in relation to your body.

Depends on your voice and conversation.

give us more info
 
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I agree with the others. Often I do or say things myself some stupid people might consider gay. but who cares? It's the fact you are attracted and get with women that are important. hell I shave/trim, have a sense for fashon, and wax my eye brows, and **** it if I have something I want to cover up on my face before I go out you damn well better believe I'll use coverup.

Some guys might call me gay, but they can call me gay all they want when I'm the one out there getting numbers and make outs from various women.
 
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Borknagar said:
wax my eye brows, and if I have something I want to cover up on my face before I go out you damn well better believe I'll use coverup.

Some guys might call me gay, but they can call me gay all they want when I'm the one out there getting numbers and make outs from various women.
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wtf is wrong with you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Borknagar said:
I agree with the others. Often I do or say things myself some stupid people might consider gay. but who cares? It's the fact you are attracted and get with women that are important. hell I shave/trim, have a sense for fashon, and wax my eye brows, and **** it if I have something I want to cover up on my face before I go out you damn well better believe I'll use coverup.

Some guys might call me gay, but they can call me gay all they want when I'm the one out there getting numbers and make outs from various women.
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'When you see a metrosexual, call him ‘princess’. That is the correct name for such creatures'- Pook
 
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