"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how metrosexual am I ?

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I had a "plesant" discussion here with someone about being gay. He called me a metrosexual since homosexuality does not apply to me, here is a list of things I do to take care of my body, guys, is this "too much" ? I live in europe btw, in a country without a macho culture, anyway here it is.

- my nails are always cut
- my face is always shaved
- my hair below my head is always trimmed/shaved, that includes chest, under arms, "down there"
- my haircut is important to me
- I always smell neutral OR good (I use deo/perfume)
- my clothes are important to me, NO, I dont buy some crazy catalogues, I dont follow fashion, but I like to dress WELL
- I have different glasses, for work, to go out, etc

does this sound gay/metrosexual ? does it mean in YOUR eyes that Im not a "man" ? I repeat, I'm only interested in women.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ice882

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no...that's called not being a scrub.
 

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Acq said:
I had a "plesant" discussion here with someone about being gay. He called me a metrosexual since homosexuality does not apply to me, here is a list of things I do to take care of my body, guys, is this "too much" ? I like in europe btw, in a country without a macho culture, anyway here it is.

- my nails are always cut
- my face is always shaved
- my hair below my head is always trimmed/shaved, that inclused chest, under arms, "down there"
- my haircut is important to me
- I always smell neutral OR good (I use deo/perfume)
- my clothes are important to me, NO, I dont buy some crazy catalogues, I dont follow fashion, but I like to dress WELL
- I have different glasses, for work, to go out, etc

does this sound gay/metrosexual ? does it mean in YOUR eyes that Im not a "man" ? I repeat, I'm only interested in women.
There is nothing wrong with any of the above.
 

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Maybe try diesel fuel for cologne and see if anyone calls you a metrosexual then!
 

Pierce

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That's being a guy who takes pride in what he does.... (not being a jay)

All those things are things that I do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hansol

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I'd say you're somewhere between fabulously metrosexual and super-duper metrosexual.
 

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Acq said:
- my nails are always cut
- my face is always shaved
- my hair below my head is always trimmed/shaved, that inclused chest, under arms, "down there"
- my haircut is important to me
- I always smell neutral OR good (I use deo/perfume)
- my clothes are important to me, NO, I dont buy some crazy catalogues, I dont follow fashion, but I like to dress WELL
- I have different glasses, for work, to go out, etc

If you were living in the 1950's, the above would have been considered normal, respectable and expected by everyone in the general public. But you have to understand the warped mind of the masses influenced by magazines and TV.

This is what it was like in 50's and before

Be who you are not what others think you are.
 

Ease

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Depends on your haircut and your clothes.

Depends on the way you walk and where you place your hands in relation to your body.

Depends on your voice and conversation.

give us more info
 

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I agree with the others. Often I do or say things myself some stupid people might consider gay. but who cares? It's the fact you are attracted and get with women that are important. hell I shave/trim, have a sense for fashon, and wax my eye brows, and **** it if I have something I want to cover up on my face before I go out you damn well better believe I'll use coverup.

Some guys might call me gay, but they can call me gay all they want when I'm the one out there getting numbers and make outs from various women.
 

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Borknagar said:
wax my eye brows, and if I have something I want to cover up on my face before I go out you damn well better believe I'll use coverup.

Some guys might call me gay, but they can call me gay all they want when I'm the one out there getting numbers and make outs from various women.
wtf is wrong with you?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Borknagar said:
I agree with the others. Often I do or say things myself some stupid people might consider gay. but who cares? It's the fact you are attracted and get with women that are important. hell I shave/trim, have a sense for fashon, and wax my eye brows, and **** it if I have something I want to cover up on my face before I go out you damn well better believe I'll use coverup.

Some guys might call me gay, but they can call me gay all they want when I'm the one out there getting numbers and make outs from various women.
'When you see a metrosexual, call him ‘princess’. That is the correct name for such creatures'- Pook
 
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