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It's draining your life source dude.. That semen your spilling is powerful.

Try retaining for a couple of weeks.. I promise you will feel awesome, very much in control.. Your energy and focus will be super high & you will feel super motivated to actually talk to girls and smash for real.

And for some reason I don't fully understand yet... Girls will check you out more, talk to you, and even stare at you.

It's like they can smell that testerone.
Hi Soulforge,
This is a subject that has intrigued me for years...I am torn between East and West....On one Hand Eastern Philosophies like Taoism,are quite stringent on this believing,that Men over 40 should never ejaculate...On the other hand Western Medicine suggests that Prostate Health dictates "Use it or lose it"...when I went to a Urologist about my own Prostate Health,His Old Nurse was quite adament on the Topic advising me,that to stay Healthy a Man should ejaculate as frequently as possible,when pressed she advised at least every three Days...Personally I decided in favour of Western Medicine,but it must be admitted it really does weaken you!
 

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Hi Soulforge,
This is a subject that has intrigued me for years...I am torn between East and West....On one Hand Eastern Philosophies like Taoism,are quite stringent on this believing,that Men over 40 should never ejaculate...On the other hand Western Medicine suggests that Prostate Health dictates "Use it or lose it"...when I went to a Urologist about my own Prostate Health,His Old Nurse was quite adament on the Topic advising me,that to stay Healthy a Man should ejaculate as frequently as possible,when pressed she advised at least every three Days...Personally I decided in favour of Western Medicine,but it must be admitted it really does weaken you!
Hey bro.

I'm not suggesting a man should avoid ejaculating permanently.

Busting a nut is a basic necessity for us men, however my approach is, that you should hold your semen and have sex with an actual female, and not Infront of a screen, or fapping off, just for the sake of it.

I mean it makes sense why Western medicine encourages us men to bust nuts as often as possible.. How else will the porn industry make money, how else can they weaken men & destroy Masculinity, while at the same time empowering females.

A weak male, who lacks discipline & is a slave to his basic urges, is addicted to depravity, actually serves the Western Liberal agenda perfectly well.

I can only only tell you from my experience and many many other men testify to this, when your retaining, you will feel much more powerful and strong.
 

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3x per day is insane to me, especially if it's a regular thing. If I do it 3x in a single day I feel like a hollow shell of myself for days afterwards.

Even 3x per week seems like a lot. Personally I try to limit myself to 2-3x a month. I have experimented with nofap (longest streak was 3 months with no porn and nofap) - it's not clear how much of that benefit is coming from quitting porn, but I suspect at the majority of the benefits come from quitting porn.

Once you've quit porn though I think you should still limit yourself to once a week but probably once every other week at most. If you're fapping 3x per day to porn every time, you have a serious problem.

Hey bro.

I'm not suggesting a man should avoid ejaculating permanently.
This is impossible anyway. If you go long enough without busting you'll have a wet dream. I pretty much always do if I exceed 3 weeks or so.
 
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Frankly, I find the concept of “semen retention” outlandish at best. I cannot find any reputable sources that discuss measurable benefits of any sort.

So if I get laid at least once a day, sometimes 2-3 times am I making myself weaker and less attractive somehow? Is the dopamine release somehow different if you’re beating your monkey and if you’re beating a live kitty? The idea is ejaculation, which technically is the same where you’re beating your monkey or beating a kitty…

What about the adage that a woman knows if a man is getting laid regularly and finds it attractive?
 

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Frankly, I find the concept of “semen retention” outlandish at best. I cannot find any reputable sources that discuss measurable benefits of any sort.

So if I get laid at least once a day, sometimes 2-3 times am I making myself weaker and less attractive somehow? Is the dopamine release somehow different if you’re beating your monkey and if you’re beating a live kitty? The idea is ejaculation, which technically is the same where you’re beating your monkey or beating a kitty…

What about the adage that a woman knows if a man is getting laid regularly and finds it attractive?
Myself and several other men on this forum will testify to the benefits of Semen Retention.

We didn't just wake up one morning & think to ourselves, "hey I might go on SS and make up some BS lies about the benefits of Semen Retention"

I'm not suggesting we shouldn't bust nuts at all.. However there are definitely benefits to holding the seed in.

I did a streak recently of 4-5 weeks.. And I felt great.

01. More energy
02. More focus
03. More intense gym sessions
04. Alot more attention from females
05. A sense of control & decipline
06. No longer have the want/need to watch porn
 

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Because of my medical background, I tend to think about things physiologically. I’m not saying it doesn’t work for you. I’m just asking questions. There is also something in medicine called the placebo effect.

Myself and several other men on this forum will testify to the benefits of Semen Retention.

We didn't just wake up one morning & think to ourselves, "hey I might go on SS and make up some BS lies about the benefits of Semen Retention"

I'm not suggesting we shouldn't bust nuts at all.. However there are definitely benefits to holding the seed in.

I did a streak recently of 4-5 weeks.. And I felt great.

01. More energy
02. More focus
03. More intense gym sessions
04. Alot more attention from females
05. A sense of control & decipline
06. No longer have the want/need to watch porn
 

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Frankly, I find the concept of “semen retention” outlandish at best. I cannot find any reputable sources that discuss measurable benefits of any sort.

So if I get laid at least once a day, sometimes 2-3 times am I making myself weaker and less attractive somehow? Is the dopamine release somehow different if you’re beating your monkey and if you’re beating a live kitty? The idea is ejaculation, which technically is the same where you’re beating your monkey or beating a kitty…

What about the adage that a woman knows if a man is getting laid regularly and finds it attractive?
Yes agreed, girls are definitely attracted to guys who get laid or have options.

However on Semen Retention.. The attention from girls for myself has been much higher.

And several other men who have done streaks of SR also confirm they receive more attention from females.

Why this is the case.. I really don't know
 

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My sources, other than you.





Yes agreed, girls are definitely attracted to guys who get laid or have options.

However on Semen Retention.. The attention from girls for myself has been much higher.

And several other men who have done streaks of SR also confirm they receive more attention from females.

Why this is the case.. I really don't know
 

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Don't take my word for
My sources, other than you.




Don't take my word for it man.. just ask the dudes on here who have tried it.

They all can't be delusional and imagining the benefits.. placebo effect.
 

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Story of my life. LMAO

When I was on two weeks of no-fap I was legit walking around with the swagger of Putin. Felt like an animal with the ferocity of a lion. One month in, I couldn't take it anymore. Felt like I was going to explode because I had so much energy, so I relapsed. Problem was that I never re-directed that energy anywhere. Sexual transmutation is a real thing, apparently Mike Tyson didn't have sex for five years which explains why he was such a savage in the ring.
 

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Story of my life. LMAO

When I was on two weeks of no-fap I was legit walking around with the swagger of Putin. Felt like an animal with the ferocity of a lion. One month in, I couldn't take it anymore. Felt like I was going to explode because I had so much energy, so I relapsed. Problem was that I never re-directed that energy anywhere. Sexual transmutation is a real thing, apparently Mike Tyson didn't have sex for five years which explains why he was such a savage in the ring.
Masterbation is useless
 

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Story of my life. LMAO

When I was on two weeks of no-fap I was legit walking around with the swagger of Putin. Felt like an animal with the ferocity of a lion. One month in, I couldn't take it anymore. Felt like I was going to explode because I had so much energy, so I relapsed. Problem was that I never re-directed that energy anywhere. Sexual transmutation is a real thing, apparently Mike Tyson didn't have sex for five years which explains why he was such a savage in the ring.
@Pierce.Manhammer

I don't know if you would classify this as placebo.. but pretty much 99% of the dudes I have spoke to, who applied semen retention for over 2 weeks, felt like they are king of the world.

It's not a imaginary feeling I can assure you.. it's real & very powerful.
 

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Story of my life. LMAO

When I was on two weeks of no-fap I was legit walking around with the swagger of Putin. Felt like an animal with the ferocity of a lion. One month in, I couldn't take it anymore. Felt like I was going to explode because I had so much energy, so I relapsed. Problem was that I never re-directed that energy anywhere. Sexual transmutation is a real thing, apparently Mike Tyson didn't have sex for five years which explains why he was such a savage in the ring.
Beautiful man.. I hope you get back on it.

By the way hitting the gym will redirect your energy big time, and you should see major results in regards to gains.

This is exactly why Boxers/athletes refrain from busting nuts before a big fight or competition.

Retaining your seed gives you that edge!
 

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No idea how someone can masturbate 3 times a day and properly function.

Personally if I fap two days in a row even once per day, my performances drops and my lazyness skyrockets.

Fapping before going to sleep also forces me to sleep extra hour to wake up decently.
There is something to be said that the release of a man's essence, which brings forth hormones that make the man feel good - along with the natural fatigue (to some degree) from any physical exertion - makes him more ready to "call it a night". I'd also say that having a day where I'm getting a lot done - a mix of physical & mental work - tends to up my horniness, and I'm more likely to visit Chaturbate, Xgirls, etc. to take the edge off, unless of course I'm in GeoMax mode in which case I can avail myself of a gal to get me off. :cool:

As for fapping and macking, I know most men here think that the former denudes [pun not intended] the latter, but it doesn't for me; maybe I just like being relaxed when macking, and nofap makes me too wound up. :rolleyes:
 
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