"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How many women you guys slept with?

Bokanovsky

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Polls like this are completely pointless, as they don't take quality into account. It does not take much to f*ck fatties and ugs. I could open a POF account and f*ck a new girl every day if I didn't care about quality.

IMO, every time you bang a girl who is a 5 or lower, it should count as a negative score...you subtract one from your total, instead of adding one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bokanovsky said:
IMO, every time you bang a girl who is a 5 or lower, it should count as a negative score...you subtract one from your total, instead of adding one.
That's ridiculous...what one person considers a 5 may be considered a 4 by someone else or a 6 yet another person. It's all pink on the inside and all women need lovin'. The vast majority of mine would pass the quality test with pretty much anyone but there was a brief period when I was in late teens/early twenties that as long as she was warm and had a heartbeat then we were good to go.
 

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sandman007 said:
there was a brief period when I was in late teens/early twenties that as long as she was warm and had a heartbeat then we were good to go.
I'd rather not have sex at all than bang women like that. Disgusting.
 

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honestly, probably somewhere around 30-40. actually probably 35-45. i know 6 for sure before i got out of high school, then after that i lost count.

that's new girls, and i've turned down more than that im' pretty picky. keep in mind also i didn't get laid from 18-21 beucase of my business and i've only had sex wtih one woman for the last 4 years so really that's 40 or so women in a span of 6 years.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zarky said:
38 vag + 2 bl*wjob only... I equate that to 39 ;) One more for my 40 by 40 merit badge. Then it's 75 by 50 which will be pretty difficult (for me at least).
Sorry bro, two blows don't count as a penis in a vag. Otherwise there's go.na be a huge change in everyones numbers!
You'll get there without cheating like that. I have faith.:up:
 

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Purefilth said:
Sorry bro, two blows don't count as a penis in a vag. Otherwise there's go.na be a huge change in everyones numbers!
You'll get there without cheating like that. I have faith.:up:
LOL I was waiting for someone to say that. I keep my own numbers thanks ;)
 
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When I started my Don Juan escapade nearly a decade ago, I strived to bang women to fill a void in my soul. However, each bang only served to reaffirm the pointlessness of existence. After two lays, I am a broken husk of a man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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5 Girls--all HB7 and above. I remember each of them as if it had happened yesterday. I have made out with at least 15 women, but when it comes to sex I am picky. Plus I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 19 and overcame serious mental barriers and self-esteem issues. I got in an LTR right after entering the game (which lasted 3 years) and then rest have been shorter term. I would be happy with 30 by the time I stop playing the game.
 

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man I don't want a 100 broads

just give me 3 more 10s and im good for life
 
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ScottMustaine said:
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Fvckin' proud virgin.


I had my chances, but like everything in my life, I get bunch of obstacles.

I would do everything right, go in for the kill and 3 seconds before putting it in, her mom calls her and sh1ts how her brother broke his arm and she has to come quickly.


God, if you exist. Thank you for ruining my chances.
and not a single fvck was given that day
 

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Fatal Jay said:
man I don't want a 100 broads

just give me 3 more 10s and im good for life
you really believe the numbers people post here?

an average guy has 7-8 in his lifetime, well if you go out a lot and hit on every woman you can, maybe you`ll reach the double of it

this thread is full with virgins trolling each other
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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24, not counting prostitutes. I've been in a psuedo-LTR with someone for quite a while now, so this number has not gone up for almost a year.
 

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saturnalia said:
you really believe the numbers people post here?

an average guy has 7-8 in his lifetime, well if you go out a lot and hit on every woman you can, maybe you`ll reach the double of it

this thread is full with virgins trolling each other
Lol I dont understand why a bunch of grown ass men would waste their time lying on the internet. Believing that everyone on the internet is a troll or lying is just as silly as believing theyre all telling the truth imo.
 

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I believe someone who is really confident it wouldn't be hard to fvck a new girl every week. I got a female friend in her 50s who was fvcking a new guy every week some time ago, I don't see why it would have to be different for a guy.

I have a friend who's a natural - I don't see or speak to him these last years, but my other friend spoke to him the other day. The guy raised four fingers in the air and said "this week, haha!" Someone else said "but how were they looking?" He said "aah, I don't wanna talk about that." He doesn't care about how they look, he just wants to fvck.

My score is, in my own eyes, very very very very very VERY meagre. About 6-7. Easy to count them all. None were real one night stands, they all promised to be something more or became something more (however shortly).

But then, vast insecurity, social anxiety, lack of confidence, add to that a fvcked up life for the past 8 years.

I would like to see it go up to a 100 at least before I die :p.
 

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saturnalia said:
you really believe the numbers people post here?

an average guy has 7-8 in his lifetime, well if you go out a lot and hit on every woman you can, maybe you`ll reach the double of it

this thread is full with virgins trolling each other
Living in cities like Phoenix, Vegas, LA, and so on it is not really that hard. Understand that guys who have this many also have issues (I'm in that lot). While I've had as many as 3 in a day, I've also had as little as ZERO in 6 mos so it's usually feast or famine. Also keep in mind that those numbers will normally include anything from a 4 through a 10. I have been with some I'll never admit too and I've had some that even to this day my friends can't top.

I would love to say I've only been with 20 or so...but that would be a huge lie.

Also keep in mind that whatever your reality is...isn't mine and vice versa. Everything is relative. Lastly, in my case, this is 20 years of working the system. Literally every aspect of who I was, was based on hooking up. This went on 24/7. I could be at work, the grocery store, on my way to get gas, a cup of coffee...I was either approaching or being approached.

Honestly, I suck at all of it, but the more successes I had the more arrogant I became...and the more confidence I exuded. When I first started I was very shy and this got me no where, so I became an a$$, shaved my head, gained 25 lbs in muscle and geeez, the chicas ate it up. Sadly this usually attracts the insecure women. The secure women will still look, but you really need to be genuine in order to hook those (far more complex mix of character and aesthetics).

Regardless, I was also taught by about 3 different guys who's numbers far exceed mine...they literally bedded any woman, even those who were married or considered impossible.

By the way, most of my numbers came from Tucson, Phoenix, England, Germany, Korea, and Iceland. If you happen to be in any one of those locations...it's easy.
 

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^^^ Excellent post, I can relate. Not counting two marriages I've been at it for twenty years (also minus 2, 2-year deployments). I'm not going to brag or even be proud of my #, there were periods of quantity over quantity for sure. Had a girl pull me in a maintenance closet at an amusement park when I was 14.

I'm not sure of my exact number, low triple-digits if oral counts but every few days I remember another one.


saturnalia said:
an average guy has 7-8 in his lifetime, well if you go out a lot and hit on every woman you can, maybe you`ll reach the double of it
Calling BS. Source?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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