"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How many women have you all seduced?

SeldomSeen

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Which includes kissing (not just a kiss but actually making out for an extended period of time), sex, dating and whatever else.

Currently I'm somewhere between 90 - 110. I figure there's a prize if you get to 150 that includeds a bronze statue of Leon Phelps, Afro and all and a supply of aftershave.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wow of course this is gonna be the thread none of the guys hear post on.
 

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Whatever phat said goes double for me. Guys, don't post on this thread, it's just going to get stupid;)

I've seduced like 200 of em. Words of warning

grannies can really do some wicked gumming.
sleeping ones don't have any good plumbing, so make sure you bring your own lube.
The drunk girls are prone to flopping off of you while you horn em

I think I deserve the sleeze prize, just drop it off on my local dumpster, I'll be rooting through there tomorrow morning. Maybe I'll find a new issue of hustler in there if I am lucky
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Whatever phat said goes double for me. Guys, don't post on this thread, it's just going to get stupid;)

I've seduced like 200 of em. Words of warning

grannies can really do some wicked gumming.
sleeping ones don't have any good plumbing, so make sure you bring your own lube.
The drunk girls are prone to flopping off of you while you horn em

I think I deserve the sleeze prize, just drop it off on my local dumpster, I'll be rooting through there tomorrow morning. Maybe I'll find a new issue of hustler in there if I am lucky
Stay away from my grandma!
 

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I re-read the first post -- and I'm not too sure of the exact number of how many I actually suduced w/out actually trying.

Mimes count...right?
 

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Seduction is the subtle art of leading... in these terms seduction is leading into lust.

Just a form of subtle trickery everybody uses for one reason or another...

If I counted seducton upon the number of women who I could have slept with by asking her to "share my bed tonight" or "give myself to them" My numbers wuold be far higher than simply admitting to the number of times I have allowed my body to control my emotions.

In terms of sex, 13 so far this year(sex), 40+ this year(kiss), 80+ this year(heavy kino). Dating... sexually, in my lifetime, 0... intimately, in my lifetime, 0... as friends in my lifetime, every woman I have ever spoken with.

I am a beautiful man, I hope you can see past the cover.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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