"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how many women are hors?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Predictable response Kev.00Kevin said:
But yah, I would, I'd say that all the guys who vote over 50% of women are hors on your poll are gay.
I'm really not trying to be mean.
Really if you're gay, thats cool. To the guys who hate women (and not not accusing you of this Kev), you'll really be much happier if you just came out.
JJ.
Yeah, the next come back is "well you know all about that don't you JJ?" Good one!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Possibly one or more.00Kevin said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
KingBeef
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yes, i'd sure like a hor right now....hors d” oeuvre that is!!! :crackup: :crackup:00Kevin said:
Does someone need to read "hooked on phonics??"
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Haha, always thinking about food, Mr BEEF?KingBeef said::crackup:
yes, i'd sure like a hor right now....hors d” oeuvre that is!!! :crackup: :crackup:
Does someone need to read "hooked on phonics??"
I didn't vote 100% BTW, it was someone else - damn, there is someone else calling out hors more than me?
nonchalant
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
There's the kind you marry and the kind you just f***. The former not only aren't offended you dont want to marry them, they don't want to marry you anyway. Regardless, learn to tell the difference, and you can have the best of both worlds.
There's the kind you marry and the kind you just f***. The former not only aren't offended you dont want to marry them, they don't want to marry you anyway. Regardless, learn to tell the difference, and you can have the best of both worlds.
See? This guy knows how to roll.
PRMoon
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So lets not get so hung up on how people are, but rather what then can be.
Somebody told me that a while ago but frankly good or bad, it's all the same to me. As long as there are promiscuous people about enjoying the nightlife and AFC's and Players alike paying to get in their pants, I'll continue to rake in the dough.
And they all lived happily ever after.
So lets not get so hung up on how people are, but rather what then can be.
Somebody told me that a while ago but frankly good or bad, it's all the same to me. As long as there are promiscuous people about enjoying the nightlife and AFC's and Players alike paying to get in their pants, I'll continue to rake in the dough.
And they all lived happily ever after.
Not true at all. If men have equal opportunity to do the same then website's such as these would be non-existant. I can go soooooo in depth as to how men and women are nowhere near to being equal in those terms but I'm not going to do that. As far as hors are concerned... hors are abomination. "Hor" goes beyond just being a label. It's what they are deep down behind their mask of innocence. Look beyond just being a label. A hor is a hor and nothing more than a hor. They turn themselves into hors, no one makes them do it. Men just take what they can. And another thing.... hors never change! The only thing that changes is that they begin to age and as they age their looks go to sh!t therefore they are no longer attractive to hor around and thats where the AFC comes in. To take the hor and cherish what other mac daddies before him already had a taste of. Get your head out of the hor matrix guy!
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Look at the gay community. They don't have sites like this. Why? Because they still have the male sex drive. They simply post things like, "Hey hottie! You are looking f***** hot. Send me a message if you are around town and we can get together." Bang. There it is. That is all they need to do to get some. Aids spread like wildfire because gay guys screw like rabbits. This is how it would be if females had the same attitude as males. Nobody would get anything done. People would be in the middle of the road f****. Clerks would be in the middle of the aisle f***** customers. Waiters would be on tables f***** patrons. It would be total mayhem. I read your posts. You boys would love that.
Hey, how many gay guys do you ever hear about who are trying to lose their virginity? NONE!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The problem here is that women want studs but men don't want hors. This really isn't a double standard at all. Women are just using this line as excuse to be a hor.
"if they can do it why can't I?" , is what one girl told me after she fu-cked a different guy each night for an entire week.
PRMoon
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Wow I can't even put into words how wrong and AFC this statement is. And you've been here longer then me? How is that possilble. You're telling me in 5 years you haven't realized that you're as attractive to women as they are to you? You must be kidding me.
So sad. Oh and you know nothing of human nature.
That's it i'm done.
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i am 100% sure u never get laid and you are pissed that girls that u take out and try to symp your way into their pants, they are ****ing other guys and u get upset thinking SHE IS A HOR.........when in reality, ur the dumbazz who isnt with it and doesnt realize its 2007, and girls these days are like guys, they want love, they want excitement, and THEY WANT TO CVM
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.