"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How many ugly DJs do you know?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alpine

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That's me, ugly guy with looks in abundance :confused:

There was an experiment by the guys in white coats and pens thier breast pocket.

They took pictures of couples, cut them in half and people had to match them up. There was a spectrum of looks.

It turned out that the hit rate was about 85%. When asked why it all came down to looks.

Now don't get me wrong, this is not an excuse for defeatism, in fact a reason for ugly blokes to go out and earn lots of dosh and work out more :D

Another thing that bugs me while we are on the subject, is society's hatred of mismatched couples, especially older, ugly blokes with younger, good looking women.

Even celebs get stick, Julia Roberts' bloke? Billy Bob Thornton edit: I forgot Mick Hucknell. I say well done sir.

Girlfriends trying to influence her, the media pouring scorn on these blokes. I say, give them a pat on the back, talk about overcoming adversity!
 

Broham

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I think most would agree that "ugliness" is very subjective when it comes to women. This being the case, I think its even harder to determine what a woman's determining factors whether a guy is ugly or not are. We already know looks aren't as important to women as they are to men, so there are many other things thrown into the mix, such as personality, that determine whether or not a chick thinks a guy is ugly.

I've seen alot of toolish looking guys with major hotties. Nerds, white wannabe thugs, you name it.... However, I haven't seen any guys that look like Corky from "Life goes On" dating any hot women. So my conclusion is that if you're at least an average looking guy you can get quality booty if the other ingredients are there and you can differentiate yourself from the mediocre, which there is so much of.
 

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Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
i can tell u a man is ugly when he is fat or has a mole on his face, but realistically, i cant take 10 men and rate them since i do not have such sexual attraction to be able to tell wich is most attractive,
u have a problem if u think its normal to see handsome men.
So you can't look at the Rock or Brad Pitt and say they are handsome? I never said anything about rating.

Yeah I have a major problem I can see handsome men and know that I'm not gay.

soemthing tells me you aren't one of the smarter kids in class
 

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Women seek Power.

Powerful men always win over powerless pretty men.

Sure looks matter. But you take your handsome friend and have him meet girls who are not one night stands and tell them he is unemployed. See how he scores...

But as for men their is no standard of beauty. Is bruce willis handsome? Go watch old TV with him in it he wasn NOT handsome.

Is Tommy Lee handsome? Do you know how many hot Famous FB 10 girls he has had? He dated Pammala, Heather locklear and Jenna Jamason.

Power and only Power gents.
Be it personality, money, sex physical size, political pull etc.
The rest is BS.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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looks matter, but not as much as you may think but i agree looks do matter a lot

its the door that opens a girl up, BUT look at it this way if you've dated in your life a perfect 10 or a 9 then you can do it again because if you dated a girl like that.. then there must be something about you to attract just as good as a girl as she was.

take me for instance. first serious girl i had was a 9 or a 10 depending on who you asked. she modeled for emodel.com

when we broke up, i was like dude if i dated her then i can date just as hot women as her. and so it was.. i've dated girls about her rateing if not better nobody has matched her hottness but some have been pretty damn close.

which is why i think i've been spoiled and it takes me a while to get a girl.. cuz i only date HB8 or HB9's
 

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You only have to look at UK politicians to realise power attracts women. There are some right ugly buggers knocking off fit wives, and even fitter mistresses.

David Blunkett doesn't count, I think someone just told him she was pretty :D
 
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