Chemistry
Master Don Juan
Ha!
All the ugly guys with hot women I know have either $$$$$$$$ or looks in abundance...
All the ugly guys with hot women I know have either $$$$$$$$ or looks in abundance...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How many ugly DJs do you know?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
That's me, ugly guy with looks in abundance 
There was an experiment by the guys in white coats and pens thier breast pocket.
They took pictures of couples, cut them in half and people had to match them up. There was a spectrum of looks.
It turned out that the hit rate was about 85%. When asked why it all came down to looks.
Now don't get me wrong, this is not an excuse for defeatism, in fact a reason for ugly blokes to go out and earn lots of dosh and work out more
Another thing that bugs me while we are on the subject, is society's hatred of mismatched couples, especially older, ugly blokes with younger, good looking women.
Even celebs get stick, Julia Roberts' bloke? Billy Bob Thornton edit: I forgot Mick Hucknell. I say well done sir.
Girlfriends trying to influence her, the media pouring scorn on these blokes. I say, give them a pat on the back, talk about overcoming adversity!
There was an experiment by the guys in white coats and pens thier breast pocket.
They took pictures of couples, cut them in half and people had to match them up. There was a spectrum of looks.
It turned out that the hit rate was about 85%. When asked why it all came down to looks.
Now don't get me wrong, this is not an excuse for defeatism, in fact a reason for ugly blokes to go out and earn lots of dosh and work out more
Another thing that bugs me while we are on the subject, is society's hatred of mismatched couples, especially older, ugly blokes with younger, good looking women.
Even celebs get stick, Julia Roberts' bloke? Billy Bob Thornton edit: I forgot Mick Hucknell. I say well done sir.
Girlfriends trying to influence her, the media pouring scorn on these blokes. I say, give them a pat on the back, talk about overcoming adversity!
Broham
Senior Don Juan
I think most would agree that "ugliness" is very subjective when it comes to women. This being the case, I think its even harder to determine what a woman's determining factors whether a guy is ugly or not are. We already know looks aren't as important to women as they are to men, so there are many other things thrown into the mix, such as personality, that determine whether or not a chick thinks a guy is ugly.
I've seen alot of toolish looking guys with major hotties. Nerds, white wannabe thugs, you name it.... However, I haven't seen any guys that look like Corky from "Life goes On" dating any hot women. So my conclusion is that if you're at least an average looking guy you can get quality booty if the other ingredients are there and you can differentiate yourself from the mediocre, which there is so much of.
I've seen alot of toolish looking guys with major hotties. Nerds, white wannabe thugs, you name it.... However, I haven't seen any guys that look like Corky from "Life goes On" dating any hot women. So my conclusion is that if you're at least an average looking guy you can get quality booty if the other ingredients are there and you can differentiate yourself from the mediocre, which there is so much of.
So you can't look at the Rock or Brad Pitt and say they are handsome? I never said anything about rating.
Yeah I have a major problem I can see handsome men and know that I'm not gay.
soemthing tells me you aren't one of the smarter kids in class
Women seek Power.
Powerful men always win over powerless pretty men.
Sure looks matter. But you take your handsome friend and have him meet girls who are not one night stands and tell them he is unemployed. See how he scores...
But as for men their is no standard of beauty. Is bruce willis handsome? Go watch old TV with him in it he wasn NOT handsome.
Is Tommy Lee handsome? Do you know how many hot Famous FB 10 girls he has had? He dated Pammala, Heather locklear and Jenna Jamason.
Power and only Power gents.
Be it personality, money, sex physical size, political pull etc.
The rest is BS.
Powerful men always win over powerless pretty men.
Sure looks matter. But you take your handsome friend and have him meet girls who are not one night stands and tell them he is unemployed. See how he scores...
But as for men their is no standard of beauty. Is bruce willis handsome? Go watch old TV with him in it he wasn NOT handsome.
Is Tommy Lee handsome? Do you know how many hot Famous FB 10 girls he has had? He dated Pammala, Heather locklear and Jenna Jamason.
Power and only Power gents.
Be it personality, money, sex physical size, political pull etc.
The rest is BS.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
looks matter, but not as much as you may think but i agree looks do matter a lot
its the door that opens a girl up, BUT look at it this way if you've dated in your life a perfect 10 or a 9 then you can do it again because if you dated a girl like that.. then there must be something about you to attract just as good as a girl as she was.
take me for instance. first serious girl i had was a 9 or a 10 depending on who you asked. she modeled for emodel.com
when we broke up, i was like dude if i dated her then i can date just as hot women as her. and so it was.. i've dated girls about her rateing if not better nobody has matched her hottness but some have been pretty damn close.
which is why i think i've been spoiled and it takes me a while to get a girl.. cuz i only date HB8 or HB9's
its the door that opens a girl up, BUT look at it this way if you've dated in your life a perfect 10 or a 9 then you can do it again because if you dated a girl like that.. then there must be something about you to attract just as good as a girl as she was.
take me for instance. first serious girl i had was a 9 or a 10 depending on who you asked. she modeled for emodel.com
when we broke up, i was like dude if i dated her then i can date just as hot women as her. and so it was.. i've dated girls about her rateing if not better nobody has matched her hottness but some have been pretty damn close.
which is why i think i've been spoiled and it takes me a while to get a girl.. cuz i only date HB8 or HB9's
Alpine
Master Don Juan
You only have to look at UK politicians to realise power attracts women. There are some right ugly buggers knocking off fit wives, and even fitter mistresses.
David Blunkett doesn't count, I think someone just told him she was pretty
David Blunkett doesn't count, I think someone just told him she was pretty