"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many times have you been rejected?

How many times have you been rejected in your life?

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    Votes: 3 8.8%

  • 2

    Votes: 1 2.9%

  • 3

    Votes: 1 2.9%

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    Votes: 1 2.9%

  • 5

    Votes: 4 11.8%

  • 6

    Votes: 1 2.9%

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    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 8

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 9

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 10 or more

    Votes: 23 67.6%
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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
Sometimes, girls that AREN'T interested give the look.
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Maybe they were interested and you said or did something wrong. All it takes is one screwup sometimes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Fatality
Maybe they were interested and you said or did something wrong. All it takes is one screwup sometimes.
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That is very possible. However, I sometimes find myself looking at girls that I'm in no way interested in. I just assume that girls do the same. Just because they happen to be looking at you does not necessarily mean they're interested.



That's my reasoning anyway.
 
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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
That is very possible. However, I sometimes find myself looking at girls that I'm in no way interested in. I just assume that girls do the same. Just because they happen to be looking at you does not necessarily mean they're interested.



That's my reasoning anyway.
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Just looking or glancing or making eye contact is not what I mean. I'm talking about the look. You know it when you see it. The girl doesn't realize she is looking at you that way but she is because she really likes what she sees.
 
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So, what exactly counts as a rejection?
If you are to count the amount of girls that "didn't sync with my personality", I'd be at about 80% of the girls I've approached.
If this is about a girl saying "NO! Fvck off!" to me, there have only been two rejections.

It's all a matter of how you measure, isn't it?
 
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If you're dedicated to improving your game, you should've been rejected about 30 times in your first WEEK.


If you're talking about being "REJECTED" as in being dumped by your finacee or long-term GF or wife - more than 10 times - then yes, the problem is probably with you. But I don't count a 'rejection' at a bar or club or on the street as a real rejection. That's a wussy perspective - way too timid and sensitive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i dunno, not very many, but I don't take enough initiative to meet more girls because I'm just too busy to truly get in touch with girls around me. If I met more girls my rejection rate would go up but thats not a bad thing.
 
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