"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many time have you "hooked" up with an 8 or higher?

How many times have you hooked up with an 8 or higher?

  • Never

    Votes: 8 27.6%
  • 1-2 times

    Votes: 8 27.6%
  • 3-4 times

    Votes: 2 6.9%
  • 5 or more

    Votes: 11 37.9%

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HONEST ANSWERS HERE!!

How many times have you hooked up with what you considered an 8 or higher?

A hook up qualifies as anything as a french kiss or more.

I would say for me (only 2x).
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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mahon83050 said:
HONEST ANSWERS HERE!!

How many times have you hooked up with what you considered an 8 or higher?

A hook up qualifies as anything as a french kiss or more.

I would say for me (only 2x).
"8"s are common fare once you get "up to speed". If you're counting french kisses, oral, etc, I've lost count.

"9"s...well, I've met few girls who are solidly in the 9-bracket. One in particular comes to mind. :D
 

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squirrels said:
"8"s are common fare once you get "up to speed". If you're counting french kisses, oral, etc, I've lost count.

"9"s...well, I've met few girls who are solidly in the 9-bracket. One in particular comes to mind. :D

IMHO, most attractive women out there are in the 7-8 range.

9's and 10's are rare.
 

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mahon83050 said:
IMHO, most attractive women out there are in the 7-8 range.

9's and 10's are rare.
Not to mention the most fun.

A good 9 or 10 who's also fun (not a chore) to be around is difficult to come by. Not that they're not out there...bust most hot girls are just obnoxious.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Honestly... I've lost count. Last time I kept count, i was around 25, which was a year and a half ago. So yeah, basicly a whole sh*t load. out of all of those, I've fuvked 11.

honestly, I've had many many 7s-8s, some 9s, and I'll admit theres some 5s and 6s on there as well (i was drunk and horny). 10s, i dont believe there are 10s, thats just too damn perfect.
 

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Back in the day I did some shoots for a few magazines. Most girls assumed I was gay because it was for gay magazines. That wasn't the case. It was surprising how many 9's and 10's seduced me. They wanted to see if they could make me straight. So if you want girls you might want to do something gay first. I was getting two and three a week. All 9's at least. This lasted until I got into a fight with a photographer. It all came crashing down after that.

Number? At least 120. Most came in a two year period.
 

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
Honestly... I've lost count. Last time I kept count, i was around 25, which was a year and a half ago. So yeah, basicly a whole sh*t load. out of all of those, I've fuvked 11.

honestly, I've had many many 7s-8s, some 9s, and I'll admit theres some 5s and 6s on there as well (i was drunk and horny). 10s, i dont believe there are 10s, thats just too damn perfect.

All of this at aged 18? You must look like a male model or something
 

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mahon83050 said:
All of this at aged 18? You must look like a male model or something
hahaha male model? nahhhh

But yeah, I'm 19 in january. I lost my virginity at 15
So I'd say thats pretty good :eek:
 

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wutangfinancial said:
mahon, I usually support the looks matter stuff, but I'm gonna be honest w/you since you always post all this stuff about how short dudes can't get girls or only italian guys get girls-you work at a hotel desk. That's not a very high status job. I'm not being sensitive because you know what? An ugly guy can't really change his looks. A short guy can't get taller. But a broke loser can become an unbroke loser through hard work and dedication.

If you focused on that aspect of your life, you'd do a lot better than just posting threads on so suave.
No kidding that a front desk clerk at a hotel is not a good job. It is actually a **** job. I have a Masters in a different field, and this job is only temporary.

An ugly guy can't change his looks? Maybe not through exercise or a magic pill, but cosmetic surgery gives hope to ugly people.

Maybe I just post alot of stuff about looks because the way YOU Look, HAS a HUGE impact on how you view yourself and YOUR OVERALL QUALITY OF LIFE. Just look at all the studies done on it and how people in general react more favorably to good-looking people since they want good-looking people to like them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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considering that I am very picky about who I hook up with.

I have hooked up with two 9's

I usually date one girl for a while and my ex was an 8. My current girlfriend is an 8.5

My ex and I dated for a year.
My current girlfriend and I are dating on 6 months now.

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comic_relief said:
considering that I am very picky about who I hook up with.

I have hooked up with two 9's

I usually date one girl for a while and my ex was an 8. My current girlfriend is an 8.5

My ex and I dated for a year.
My current girlfriend and I are dating on 6 months now.

comic_relief
no offense... your picture thread... well i don't really have to say it... and i won't cuz i'm usually pretty offensive in the way i tell people things.

i'll just say it subtly... <edit>... actually... this is more subtle... if your gf is an 8.5, what would this girl be http://www.compucorgp.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/442220136_e127e75e351.jpg? (pretty much i just googled "hot blonde to find a picture)
 

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Michele said:
no offense... your picture thread... well i don't really have to say it... and i won't cuz i'm usually pretty offensive in the way i tell people things.

i'll just say it subtly... umm...i wouldn't think shes a 8.5...
thank you.

beauty is different from person to person plus I add in personality. Me and another member have had go arounds about beauty and I have a much different idea of what beauty is.

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Michele said:
<edit>... actually... this is more subtle... if your gf is an 8.5, what would this girl be http://www.compucorgp.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/442220136_e127e75e351.jpg? (pretty much i just googled "hot blonde to find a picture)
7 don't like her facial features that much

Plus, its nice that she is thin, but I don't like breasts that are that big. I like A and B cups. Proportionality is key. According to another member, I have a SKEWED version of beauty.

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Mctwist4 said:
I have to agree. In my honest opinion you could do a lot better.
I like what I have and know that I could do better (looks wise). You know what though, I don't have to prove anything to anybody, neither anyone on this website or the real world.

Plus one real draw of my girlfriend is that there is absolutely NO drama.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I lost my virginity to the hottest girl I've ever seen in my life. To this day, I've never even SEEN a girl who I think is as hot as she was. Fvcking gorgeous Czech girl! :rockon:
 

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Thuis is the crazy thing..and maybe its just me, but everytime ive hooked up with a girl whether hb8 or hb9...she always dwindles down to a 5 or 6.

I dont know if its lack in IL on my part, or the mystery just seems to fade. But it seems like they never HOLD there status
 
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