"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how many people here could care less about valentines day?

penkitten

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sorry we just had the positive and negative posts, figured we might as well have the reality one...

i truely belive that it is for the candy and card and flower industries to get your money.

valentines day, should be any dang day , to show the person you are in love with that they mean so much to you.

and it doesnt mean you have to buy a thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's my birthday. I don't give a ****. I want my presents and my hugs from women.
 

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Valentines day can be fun if you've got a bunch of girls trying to win your affection... other than that its a lame holiday if you dont have a steady relationship
 

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IMHO, valentines day is just another "corporate marketing" crap day invented made to give people a reason to spend money on their products.

just like halloween...

for me its an ordinary day.
 

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Sexy Malibu is a ****ing *****.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you mean Hallmark day.


SamePendo youre a lucky bastard. You have a permanent excuse to get a woman to get you sh1t. hahaha
 

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V-day....

Originally posted by SamePendo
Sexy Malibu is a ****ing *****.
lol.. whats the story with you and Sexy Malibu?:p :D

Otherwise... V-day.... I agree that its a day that is really overrated, but who cares, if there IS a day like V-day, then take advantage of it, simple.;)


Laterz...
 

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About a month ago I actually was stressing a bit about wether or not I would have a date for Valentine's Day. All the hype in the retail stores and the media of course didnt help either. As the day drew closer I began to think that Valentine's Day is way overhyped and that you dont need a day to show you really care about someone. Now I see it as an opportunity to practice my game on women who are desperately looking for a date so they wont be single on V Day

So in a nutshell, no I do not give a rats arse about Valentine's Day, and I will be damned if I let any companys like Hallmark get my hard earned money just so I can say 'Be my valentine'
 

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Who's Hallmark? I buy my cards from Seasons Greetings Co.
 
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