"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How many people do you know who got AIDS?

How many AIDS victims have you ever actually known?

  • 0

    Votes: 34 75.6%
  • 1

    Votes: 9 20.0%
  • 2 to 5 people

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • More than 5 people

    Votes: 1 2.2%

  • Total voters
    45

Alex DeLarge

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I don't officially know anyone with HIV/AIDS.. But there's definitely a handful of people who I think have a good chance of having it. Mainly hard drug abusers (heroin).. I know one of my old friends who's a junkie now caught hepatitis through sharing needles.

But yeah, like a previous poster had stated.. HIV/AIDS is definitely more or less prevalent in communities based on their socio-economic status.. For instance, you're going to have more HIV positive people in the projects neighborhoods than in the upper middle class cul de sac.

Plus, biologically speaking.. 20% of the caucasian population carries a gene called the CCR-5 gene which gives a person immunity to most forms of HIV. However, this means there are still some forms of HIV an individual with that particular gene can catch. So it's not a 100% solution, but still gives caucasian peoples an upperhand in prevention of the virus.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil

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Think about this: 75% of us (3/4) have never even KNOWN someone who died of AIDS. But how often have we worried we might catch it?

What does this tell you? It's overblown. Just like the War on Terror and the Global Warming BS (oh and the hole in the Ozone layer).
 

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People don't die from AIDS or opportunistic infections anymore. Treatment's much better. I work in a hospital. I've seen people with CD4 counts of 4 still manage to survive and recover using HAART therapy.

AIDS was never the direct cause of death in the first place. The problem is that it weakens your immune system to such an extent that those people started developing AIDS-defining illnesses that would never have a chance to affect healthy people. Things like PCP pneumonia, fungal infections, many parasites, CMV. These were the killers.

Nowadays we have both prophylactic medications we give for people with low CD4 counts (<200) for protection, and they're usually hospitalized with earlier signs of candidiasis so that they can be force-fed their HAART therapy and their CD4 count can rebound and they won't develop CMV, MAI, toxoplasma, all the real uglies.

It's overblown if you still consider it as bad as it was in 1990, but it's out there. It's the most prevalent illness that most infectious disease specialists deal with. And there's a lot of people in ID. What does that tell you?
 

cablecow15

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Just a Shot Away said:
You do realize you're insane, right?
hes prolly Howie Mandel lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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