"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How many people do you know who got AIDS?

How many AIDS victims have you ever actually known?

  • 0

    Votes: 34 75.6%
  • 1

    Votes: 9 20.0%
  • 2 to 5 people

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • More than 5 people

    Votes: 1 2.2%

  • Total voters
    45

Alex DeLarge

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I don't officially know anyone with HIV/AIDS.. But there's definitely a handful of people who I think have a good chance of having it. Mainly hard drug abusers (heroin).. I know one of my old friends who's a junkie now caught hepatitis through sharing needles.

But yeah, like a previous poster had stated.. HIV/AIDS is definitely more or less prevalent in communities based on their socio-economic status.. For instance, you're going to have more HIV positive people in the projects neighborhoods than in the upper middle class cul de sac.

Plus, biologically speaking.. 20% of the caucasian population carries a gene called the CCR-5 gene which gives a person immunity to most forms of HIV. However, this means there are still some forms of HIV an individual with that particular gene can catch. So it's not a 100% solution, but still gives caucasian peoples an upperhand in prevention of the virus.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigneil

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Think about this: 75% of us (3/4) have never even KNOWN someone who died of AIDS. But how often have we worried we might catch it?

What does this tell you? It's overblown. Just like the War on Terror and the Global Warming BS (oh and the hole in the Ozone layer).
 

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People don't die from AIDS or opportunistic infections anymore. Treatment's much better. I work in a hospital. I've seen people with CD4 counts of 4 still manage to survive and recover using HAART therapy.

AIDS was never the direct cause of death in the first place. The problem is that it weakens your immune system to such an extent that those people started developing AIDS-defining illnesses that would never have a chance to affect healthy people. Things like PCP pneumonia, fungal infections, many parasites, CMV. These were the killers.

Nowadays we have both prophylactic medications we give for people with low CD4 counts (<200) for protection, and they're usually hospitalized with earlier signs of candidiasis so that they can be force-fed their HAART therapy and their CD4 count can rebound and they won't develop CMV, MAI, toxoplasma, all the real uglies.

It's overblown if you still consider it as bad as it was in 1990, but it's out there. It's the most prevalent illness that most infectious disease specialists deal with. And there's a lot of people in ID. What does that tell you?
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
You do realize you're insane, right?
hes prolly Howie Mandel lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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