"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many of you would take back a cheater ?

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ME, just so I could cheat on her. I'd "accidently" press the call button on her number just before I was banging the next girl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Vice said:
I'll take my girlfriend back on a f*ck buddy basis only.
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+1 same here. i even have some FB's who were former cheater GF's. but as exclusive LTR? never :)
 
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CrimsonPanther said:
+1 same here. i even have some FB's who were former cheater GF's. but as exclusive LTR? never :)
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Exactly.

With that being said, the butthurt runs strong in this thread.
 
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Vice said:
Exactly.

With that being said, the butthurt runs strong in this thread.
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OP is talking about taking back the cheater on the basis of a LTR.

personally i would not have anything to do with a cheater - ltr or fb.

perhaps with some the desperation runs strong?
 
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My wife was developing emotional affairs while our marriage was going to the shyter due to lack of time together cuz of stresses of life, lack of funds to go out, and a lack of family support and my wifes belief that opposite sex friends were okN that she could keep it platonic but eventually she ended up talking feelings and these other men validated her while I was at work and she was preggo and home being a housemom (she now works full time as a dental assistant). So I too had an emotional affair out of spite and she hated it. Big mistake on both our parts as it drove us even farther apart. Very trying times... The problem with emotional affairs is that once you get one of your top needs met outside of your marriage others are soon to follow. Very slippery slope. Thankfully neither one of us went physical in the affair department and we turned our marriage around.

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Edit: This all started when child #1 was about 7 and child #2 was recently born.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OP is talking about taking back the cheater on the basis of a LTR.

personally i would not have anything to do with a cheater - ltr or fb.

perhaps with some the desperation runs strong?
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no need to insult each other.
we are different people here with different values. i for one don't care about fidelity from a girl if the only thing i do is stick my wiener inside her. desperation? maybe, but given the fact that i have 5 active plates (FB) atm AND a LTR girl, can't see why it should be desperation. i just don't care enough, and aside the fact that my ego was hurt when i found out, no harm was done. i do it too :) it's human nature. i just don't want it in a LTR, because i see it as a lack of respect.
 
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