"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How many of you would take back a cheater ?

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ME, just so I could cheat on her. I'd "accidently" press the call button on her number just before I was banging the next girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vice said:
I'll take my girlfriend back on a f*ck buddy basis only.
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+1 same here. i even have some FB's who were former cheater GF's. but as exclusive LTR? never :)
 
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CrimsonPanther said:
+1 same here. i even have some FB's who were former cheater GF's. but as exclusive LTR? never :)
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Exactly.

With that being said, the butthurt runs strong in this thread.
 
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Exactly.

With that being said, the butthurt runs strong in this thread.
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OP is talking about taking back the cheater on the basis of a LTR.

personally i would not have anything to do with a cheater - ltr or fb.

perhaps with some the desperation runs strong?
 
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My wife was developing emotional affairs while our marriage was going to the shyter due to lack of time together cuz of stresses of life, lack of funds to go out, and a lack of family support and my wifes belief that opposite sex friends were okN that she could keep it platonic but eventually she ended up talking feelings and these other men validated her while I was at work and she was preggo and home being a housemom (she now works full time as a dental assistant). So I too had an emotional affair out of spite and she hated it. Big mistake on both our parts as it drove us even farther apart. Very trying times... The problem with emotional affairs is that once you get one of your top needs met outside of your marriage others are soon to follow. Very slippery slope. Thankfully neither one of us went physical in the affair department and we turned our marriage around.

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Edit: This all started when child #1 was about 7 and child #2 was recently born.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OP is talking about taking back the cheater on the basis of a LTR.

personally i would not have anything to do with a cheater - ltr or fb.

perhaps with some the desperation runs strong?
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no need to insult each other.
we are different people here with different values. i for one don't care about fidelity from a girl if the only thing i do is stick my wiener inside her. desperation? maybe, but given the fact that i have 5 active plates (FB) atm AND a LTR girl, can't see why it should be desperation. i just don't care enough, and aside the fact that my ego was hurt when i found out, no harm was done. i do it too :) it's human nature. i just don't want it in a LTR, because i see it as a lack of respect.
 
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