Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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What I'll do/have done is just "be myself" and "play" with hired hands, whether it's the grocery store, waitress or food order clerk, or any service job really, bank teller (maybe). So I'll be Very different and not care about what I say and do, and I find that these checkout girls (at lest 20%) because they're minimum wage and very miserable with their lives will begin to Hate me, just HATE me because I don't say "Hi" when she says hi or you know of course on another day I will and usually do, but just ONE time I won't, and I'll do LITTLE things to annoy her. I find that no matter how bad I make things between us, OVER TIME, as I come in, she begins to like me (cause I'm not bad looking and I'm well-to-do obviously because of my grocery bill when I only got a handful of items - I only buy quality). She begins to anticipate seeing my face/presence and Want me to come to her isle and maybe stall the customer she's with to synchronize her getting to check me (in line) out and not her co-worker. It happens over and over and over again. So these hired hands HAVE to be nice in the beginning and can't curse you out or blow you off like a woman out in the world would. This is your foot in the door. After that, she Knows you, no matter How Bad you behave, or how loserly. If you slip up, eh who cares? But of course you're dealin with LOW-END girls here, girls who are Negative routinely in their current lives cause they make only $10/hr and either have a similar-waged husband or boyfriend. They're in this Cycle of mediocrity so they'll be negative when you get with them later on. They'll even be negative with you as a customer most or some days depending on how life is going with their side boyfriends/husband outside of work. It's interesting though the law of familiarity, how just Being there time after time you grow on them and you can make them laugh and think about you, EVEN IF you REALLY p!ssed her off (you know like she puts up the "closed" sign and goes to the bathroom for break cause she's so unnerved by you). I'm impenetrable because well, I'm not angry, I'm fine, and happy with my life, and on cruise control with no stresses. It's a que sera sera world. They Hate checking out produce too, having to look up every damn item hahah. I get the Worst barcoded stuff like burritos or whatever. She'll think a free magezine brochure thing in my Handheld cart is mine and give it back to me and I'll say, "That's not mine" "it was already there when I picked up the cart (too lazy to discard with it hah)" and she'll snatch it from in front of me fuming. Just little fvckery after little fvckery and agitation, and you will NOT be outta her head. But it provides excitement to her boring-as5ed job to be silly with her, but seem serious AF...to make her HATE you.

