"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How many of you think Diddy beats the wrap and gets off early?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who cares?

Probably less people than think you make a lot of pointless threads.
 

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P Diddy, I bet that dude is street smart as fvck and has a lot of connections even while in the penn. I do think he’ll eventually come out early. In the meantime, I think Im going to do some gardening and woodworking in my backyard while listening to one of his albums lol. I grew up listening to that type of urban music, the lesson we can take from here is to be yourself while remaining humble while being a good citizen, Puff unfortunately lost his way. Who knows? He can use this experience to make himself a better person, be more compassionate and make more records with a positive spiritual bliss to it.
 

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Technicality like bill Cosby?

Man Bill Cosby had such a good legacy but unfortunately he screwed it up. Goes to show, no one’s perfect and that even the most revered can have a history of psychopathic behaviors man…you really can’t trust these elitist these days, sad to say.
 
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