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How many of you take rest weeks?

Eternal_water

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I have never actually tried it but given my current work hours it may be a good idea.
Some days I do 11-15 hour days and by the end of a working week (which includes no exercise) I am already knackered.
Then I get 4 days off in which to squeeze legs, back, chest, arms, shoulders, core and cardio already tired from work on day 1.
Last night I didn't finish work until midnight, it was 1:45 am by the time I got into bed! sleep depravation certainly does not help.

Anyway today I tried to do chest and I couldn't lift the weights I normally do and I didn't have the mental energy to reach physical failure in any of my sets, gave up and tried forearms, didn't even have the energy for that. I left the gym soon after.

So I have decided to take a rest week this week. Do any of you take rest weeks and if so do you think it benefits you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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Personally I get weaker every time I take full week off and it takes like 3-4 weeks to get back to where I was. I only do volume reductions for a week or two instead unless I can't help it like going on vacation or something.
Plenty of people do fine just skipping a week, though so you'll just have to figure it out for yourself.
 

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I do it a few times a year. The older you get the more you appreciate it. I don't lose any strength, if anything I seem to come back stronger.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's pretty common to take a week off to recharge. I've always read about people doing it when they plateau for a few weeks straight. Most lifters do it like marmel, 2-3 times a year. Recharge weeks are usually only needed for intermediate to advanced lifters, though.

I'm not sure that an entire week off is what you needed here. It may have only been a bad day at the gym. We all have those days when something is off. These can be due to lack of sleep, stress, physical exertion, poor diet etc. There have been weeks where I would have a day like that and then 3 days later set a personal best.

With time and steady lifting, you'll learn more about your body and get a better idea of what's what.
 

Who Dares Win

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A week to rest once in a while not only doesnt harm but in most cases it also helps at least in my opinion but no more than that.

If I have to stop for 2 weeks I keep 90% of the strenght in all the exercises but not in the bench press, in that case I usually lose about 20% of my strenght and it takes me 2 weeks to back to the previous point.
 
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