"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How many of you have lived with a gf?

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I'm moving to a new town with my gf of 8 months for work and the company she is working for are giving her a house basically rent free. She said to me "We're moving to a new town together, I'd like you to move in. I don't want you to think of it as you coming into my house, I want it to be our house."

I told her I'd think about it. Usually this would be too early for me to move in but under these circumstances I am considering it. Mostly due to the fact that my work is a 2 weeks on, 1 week off roster so I will be away working for 2 weeks then live with her for my week off.

What are people's thoughts on this situation? Would you move in?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Lived with two different girls...

First ended up going on holiday and starting a 'relationship' with a dude who lived a 24hr flight away...! (sh*t man, I musta been being so beta).

Second had narcissistic personality disorder. Apologised to me once in 9months.

Having said that I moved in with both within a year of meeting them. In hindsight, I would have to be dating someone for years to even consider it again. My last ex and I were basically living in each other's pockets as well. Funnily enough, that didn't work out either. The familiarity breeds contempt.

Don't agree with the sex getting old thing though.... it only gets old if you a) are not maintaining frame, b) don't know what you're doing, c) are being too selfish or d) all of the above.
 

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OR... e) all of the above and dating an ugly chick.
 

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Cohabitation is a lot like hotdogs. The more I see what goes in them, the less I want one.
 
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