"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many of you have lived with a gf?

Fireballs

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I'm moving to a new town with my gf of 8 months for work and the company she is working for are giving her a house basically rent free. She said to me "We're moving to a new town together, I'd like you to move in. I don't want you to think of it as you coming into my house, I want it to be our house."

I told her I'd think about it. Usually this would be too early for me to move in but under these circumstances I am considering it. Mostly due to the fact that my work is a 2 weeks on, 1 week off roster so I will be away working for 2 weeks then live with her for my week off.

What are people's thoughts on this situation? Would you move in?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Lived with two different girls...

First ended up going on holiday and starting a 'relationship' with a dude who lived a 24hr flight away...! (sh*t man, I musta been being so beta).

Second had narcissistic personality disorder. Apologised to me once in 9months.

Having said that I moved in with both within a year of meeting them. In hindsight, I would have to be dating someone for years to even consider it again. My last ex and I were basically living in each other's pockets as well. Funnily enough, that didn't work out either. The familiarity breeds contempt.

Don't agree with the sex getting old thing though.... it only gets old if you a) are not maintaining frame, b) don't know what you're doing, c) are being too selfish or d) all of the above.
 

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OR... e) all of the above and dating an ugly chick.
 

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Cohabitation is a lot like hotdogs. The more I see what goes in them, the less I want one.
 
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