Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You quit weed?I just stopped going there any more. So I suppose it could be considered a quiet quit.
I've not worked at all since June. Probably going to start looking for something about the
same time next year. Needed some me time. I've quit weed, quit tobacco, booze is next
after Christmas and then after my surgical procedure in January it's also a diet overhaul
and some effort to do some exercise. I'll start with regular walking.
Occupation?Double downing, not quiet quitting. Then again I am self employed and want to succeed and make lots of money.
Quiet quitting is going to stop very soon if it hasn't already. We're in what feels like a recession. In a recession, employees (aka wage slaves) get nervous and work more to avoid layoffs.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's a great point. Do you think employees realize that? I don't think the typical employee wage slave sees it that way. I sense that employees get nervous in recessions and want to go the extra mile if they perceive the threat of a layoff. I consider this especially true in white collar work. When a white collar worker gets laid off, it takes him longer to find a new job than the blue collar worker or McJob worker.I can tell you with absolute certainty that being valuable asset to your company doesn't amount to jack sh/t when it's time for layoffs.
This is true. It's more true in large, publicly traded companies than smaller, privately owned companies.Keep in mind that most people in executive positions don't stay at a company for very long (at most 5 years) so they're only motivated by short term cost savings and NOT long term product/service quality - their bonuses are based off of quarterly performance, so they aren't incentivized to think long-term.
Life Insurance agent. Also have Real Estate license.Occupation?
Yes, at the start of October and tobacco about 6 weeks ago.You quit weed?
Ill never quit weed but do plan to get my card here in miamiYes, at the start of October and tobacco about 6 weeks ago.
Sounds like the decade of greed 1985 through 1995 immediately wall street comes to mindNot true, I work in the finance dept at my company. I can tell you with absolute certainty that being valuable asset to your company doesn't amount to jack sh/t when it's time for layoffs.
The best example of this are the design engineers - these guys work hard to produce a prototype. Once they finalize the design specs we fire all of them and turn over the design specs to the manufacturing engineers whom are tasked with reconfiguring the assembly line to mass produce the prototype design at the absolute lowest cost.
And once the assembly line is optimized to produce the design at the lowest cost, we fire half of the manufacturing engineers and only keep small number of manufacturing engineers on board just in case problems happen.
The same can be said of all departments. Management is quite willing to compromise quality (by firing tenured staff) to save a few pennies.
Keep in mind that most people in executive positions don't stay at a company for very long (at most 5 years) so they're only motivated by short term cost savings and NOT long term product/service quality - their bonuses are based off of quarterly performance, so they aren't incentivized to think long-term.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.