ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Then you are looking at her as a woman and not as a person. Use the woman sode for sex/intimacy. The person side for all other miscellaneous things. You can still benefit from her. Morality plays no role in this.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How many of you guys.....
- Thread starter Glassguy
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SgtSplacker
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The reason you are like this is because you are doing the right thing. You have a kid so there is no reason to have any relationship that is not about sex. There is nothing a woman can provide for you that is worth the investment of time and money she presents. So yeah as soon as she starts trying to lasso you with affection you bail. It's the optimal path.