ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Then you are looking at her as a woman and not as a person. Use the woman sode for sex/intimacy. The person side for all other miscellaneous things. You can still benefit from her. Morality plays no role in this.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How many of you guys.....
- Thread starter Glassguy
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SgtSplacker
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The reason you are like this is because you are doing the right thing. You have a kid so there is no reason to have any relationship that is not about sex. There is nothing a woman can provide for you that is worth the investment of time and money she presents. So yeah as soon as she starts trying to lasso you with affection you bail. It's the optimal path.