"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how many of you guys use a condom for BJ's?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Smooth Player 056
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Thats funny you mention that, one of my friends says that if a girl blows into your penis it goes up into your brain and you die, which is why he wears a condom. I laugh everytime I think about that. I personally dont use a condom for blow jobs, its always safer to, but not really necessary.
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hahaha, I'm not a 100% sure about penises... but actually if you blow into a vagina you can actually cause some real health risks... air that is introduced into a vagina could in rare instances cause a type of blood clot that can be very dangerous.
as for penises... why would a girl every blow into a penis anyway? isn't she supposed to be doing the opposite which is sucking?
which brings up another point while we're on this topic... I always found it so counter intuitive that we call it "blowing" or "*******" when they are actually sucking....
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There was this guy in high school who told some of us guys that girls don't "suck" when they give you head, they "blow". We told him he was retarted, and he said 1) I have a girlfriend, so I know this, and 2) Why else would they call it a blow job? Heh. I bet his ball sack finally got so inflated it burst.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.