"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how many of you guys use a condom for BJ's?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Smooth Player 056
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Thats funny you mention that, one of my friends says that if a girl blows into your penis it goes up into your brain and you die, which is why he wears a condom. I laugh everytime I think about that. I personally dont use a condom for blow jobs, its always safer to, but not really necessary.
-Smooth-
hahaha, I'm not a 100% sure about penises... but actually if you blow into a vagina you can actually cause some real health risks... air that is introduced into a vagina could in rare instances cause a type of blood clot that can be very dangerous.
as for penises... why would a girl every blow into a penis anyway? isn't she supposed to be doing the opposite which is sucking?
which brings up another point while we're on this topic... I always found it so counter intuitive that we call it "blowing" or "*******" when they are actually sucking....
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There was this guy in high school who told some of us guys that girls don't "suck" when they give you head, they "blow". We told him he was retarted, and he said 1) I have a girlfriend, so I know this, and 2) Why else would they call it a blow job? Heh. I bet his ball sack finally got so inflated it burst.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.