"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many of you guys actually consciously try to be "alpha"?

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I'm curious because I think I tried it a few times way back when, but I've always found it easier to just "vibe" with whatever party/group I'm in. My gameplan is to be genuinely interested in whoever I'm hanging out with... That's all I've really needed.
 

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if ur always trying to be 'alpha' you may just end up AMOGing people, ultimately pissing them off

maybe just being more assertive and proactive is a better mindset, rather than comstantly thinking how to ne the "top dog" (aslo a true alpha will let other people take the limelight)

"bringing value" (e.g. being awsome with women helping your friends with this) will naturally lead you to a more dominant position

there are some other things to improve your aura of alphaness/natural dominace suhc as getting voice tonality sorted.
see http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VDslvC4_5w

have you guys notived how bad some guys are at vibing, some of the guys i go out wiht vibe 'badly' (negativiely) they don't really help each other, more taking stabs at each other... pretty lame and weak
 
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