Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How many of you guys actually consciously try to be "alpha"?

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I'm curious because I think I tried it a few times way back when, but I've always found it easier to just "vibe" with whatever party/group I'm in. My gameplan is to be genuinely interested in whoever I'm hanging out with... That's all I've really needed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if ur always trying to be 'alpha' you may just end up AMOGing people, ultimately pissing them off

maybe just being more assertive and proactive is a better mindset, rather than comstantly thinking how to ne the "top dog" (aslo a true alpha will let other people take the limelight)

"bringing value" (e.g. being awsome with women helping your friends with this) will naturally lead you to a more dominant position

there are some other things to improve your aura of alphaness/natural dominace suhc as getting voice tonality sorted.
see http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VDslvC4_5w

have you guys notived how bad some guys are at vibing, some of the guys i go out wiht vibe 'badly' (negativiely) they don't really help each other, more taking stabs at each other... pretty lame and weak
 
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