MightyMate
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I do. What about You ?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How many of You cheat in LTR ?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MightyMate
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Shut up kid. And dont tell others what beeing DJ is for. Its You personal choose if You cheat or not kid.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
if i am in an LTR i don't intend to cheat, because if its an LTR its someone i care about.
im not patient enough to be in a relationship with women that i don't consider very worthy, therefore i wouldnt be cheating.
in STRs and MLTRs whatever happens, happens, but i don't pretend to be faithful in those.
im not patient enough to be in a relationship with women that i don't consider very worthy, therefore i wouldnt be cheating.
in STRs and MLTRs whatever happens, happens, but i don't pretend to be faithful in those.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SeldomSeen
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RE:
now wait are you saying this because you're proud of the fact that you cheat or you want justification by asking the rest of the readers if they cheat also. I have cheated in a LTR and honestly I didnt feel any better, in fact I felt a little worse.
now wait are you saying this because you're proud of the fact that you cheat or you want justification by asking the rest of the readers if they cheat also. I have cheated in a LTR and honestly I didnt feel any better, in fact I felt a little worse.
MightyMate
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Go make some more accounts and split e-personalities. Flood us with them saying whats wrong and whats not. Nerd.
MightyMate
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Re: RE:
I just made topic. I feel good with cheating. I dont need any justification or support. I think its a good topic for a discussion.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Naw, I don't. I feel too guilty afterwards. *shrug*
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MightyMate
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I used not ot cheat, But when LTR was ending i was lkie 'damn i could have those girls and didnt.. What now?'. SO now, when my girl pisses me off i always cheat. I dont do that when its fine between us, but if she pisses me off more than 2 days in a row i cheat. That sounds silly but it helps our LTR because im getting less stressed.
TedJustAdmitIt
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There's simply no need.
If you desire an open relationship then that's the frame you set from the beginning.
Yes there will be those women that won't agree and those are the one's that you need to let go.
There will,however,be women who also want an open relationship and these are the one's who fit the criteria needed to be a MLTR.
IMHO,setting up a pretense of sexual exclusivity and then sleeping around behind the person's back shows that you suffer from the scarcity mindset ie:you believe that you must hide your true intentions due to a lack of confidence in your ability to attract one of the 3 billion other women in the world who would be happy in an open relationship.
If you desire an open relationship then that's the frame you set from the beginning.
Yes there will be those women that won't agree and those are the one's that you need to let go.
There will,however,be women who also want an open relationship and these are the one's who fit the criteria needed to be a MLTR.
IMHO,setting up a pretense of sexual exclusivity and then sleeping around behind the person's back shows that you suffer from the scarcity mindset ie:you believe that you must hide your true intentions due to a lack of confidence in your ability to attract one of the 3 billion other women in the world who would be happy in an open relationship.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
And,
If you want to screw multiple women, don't agree to be her boyfriend.
MinDFreeZ
Don Juan
you know.. during a "fight" with my LTR as of now, she decided to get drunk and kiss another guy in front of me... we were "broken up".. but it feels like total ****.. so the only reason I would ever cheat is because I feel it's alright, because SHE did it first.... but I haven't.. I've been good.. I did sleep with an ex LTR during the beginning of my current one.. just because the current LTR didn't want to be "serious" at the time.. which was fine.. but she had moved in 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Go jump in front of a train.
BingoBango
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I dont think there's much point in calling this guy a loser. I mean if he wants to cheat in LTR then let him - 'each to his own'. It takes all different types to make up the world... i dont believe in cheating in LTR, but a lot of girls do it, so what if this guy wants to? I mean, it's not like he's married to these girls....
It's important to keep an open mind. Chances are, people who participate in this forum are not in a position to judge others, and get on their 'high horses'.
Success can come from doing things differently... this guy has a different opinion to yours... don't call him an idiot, nerd, etc because of it.
That's my opinion, and i welcome yours.
It's important to keep an open mind. Chances are, people who participate in this forum are not in a position to judge others, and get on their 'high horses'.
Success can come from doing things differently... this guy has a different opinion to yours... don't call him an idiot, nerd, etc because of it.
That's my opinion, and i welcome yours.
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Yeah sure why not? I've done it before. If and when I decide to get back into a "LTR" I probably will do it again (unless my gf is so good 24/7 she literally drains my balls empty and leaves me zero desire for other women and is mindblowingly inventive with sex, I'm talking sucking c@ck at least once a day with a genuine smile on her face and a "is that all you got for me?" reply after shes done swallowing.....doubtful) .
Me and a mate were talking about this just the other day, we both came to the conclusion that every man worth his salt (us) needs the chick who we "love" and looks after us at home, a primary in other words and a dirty little minx on the side who you can thrash and be totally selfish with.
Kind of like steak at home but every now and then go out for a greasy hamburger, nothing personal to the steak, the steaks still great and everything.
Sort of a loophole to bypass the fact of society brainwashing men into believing that theyre physically and mentally designed for 1 chick and 1 chick only.
Me and a mate were talking about this just the other day, we both came to the conclusion that every man worth his salt (us) needs the chick who we "love" and looks after us at home, a primary in other words and a dirty little minx on the side who you can thrash and be totally selfish with.
Kind of like steak at home but every now and then go out for a greasy hamburger, nothing personal to the steak, the steaks still great and everything.
Sort of a loophole to bypass the fact of society brainwashing men into believing that theyre physically and mentally designed for 1 chick and 1 chick only.
MightyMate
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Re: Re: How many of You cheat in LTR ?
Im 100% sure You are not in LTR. Get a life!
All you ask this: does cheating please yourself?
It so, its ok. Remember that if perform a more solid LTR the social statics will counter you (all the people like here, that blamed you about what you are doing), and if you are caught... its the end of the term. Anyway I would feel free to attach my LTR girl what kind of relation are we going to have from now and on to avoid this kind of situations...
If not then maybe you really found the one in your life or you are mentally controlled by the social statics.
By myself I think the one does not exist, and cheating is enough if your LTR o MLTR have an idea, that she is not the one for you (and she obvioulsy can cheat you without deserve)
NOTE: When I say the one I refer to the same as one-itis
It so, its ok. Remember that if perform a more solid LTR the social statics will counter you (all the people like here, that blamed you about what you are doing), and if you are caught... its the end of the term. Anyway I would feel free to attach my LTR girl what kind of relation are we going to have from now and on to avoid this kind of situations...
If not then maybe you really found the one in your life or you are mentally controlled by the social statics.
By myself I think the one does not exist, and cheating is enough if your LTR o MLTR have an idea, that she is not the one for you (and she obvioulsy can cheat you without deserve)
NOTE: When I say the one I refer to the same as one-itis
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.