how many of us are going out?

[In2theGame]

I know that feel bro. I went through a Tinder phase earlier this year that left me feeling empty and odd. I just realized that I didnt really like the quick hooking up with chicks I didnt know well nor had any sort of feeling for. But still I dont like the idea of being in a bf/gf committed relationship because of all the bad sh!t people can do and usually do.

Right now I feel like the happy compromise is a main girl I connect with on some level and can do couple type things with, without actually having to lock down a relationship. But we all know that brings its own drama.

Exactly. It kind of feels like your dammed if you do or dammed if you don't. I guess its pick your poison because Relationships come with problems of their own eventually like you mentioned and being single sleeping with girl after girl will also make you feel kind of hallow once your done in the bedroom. I know so many guys that tell me to stay single because its not worth the drama with having to deal with BS from a Girlfriend or worse yet a Wife that can divorce your azz and turn your financial situation into a circus. It's tough but gotta chug along. I do enjoy going out and meeting different Women every weekend but maybe i just need a break because im not as motivated as before. I look at a group of girls and i think to myself...."I know i can get that girl over there" and i feel like.... theres no challenge so it doesnt motivate me. Also, once your getting azz on the regular, you dont feel as motivated either. Im sure the hunger to go get some new girls will show up though, it always does, thats why ive been putting breaks on entering a LTR with my main girl.