"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How Many Nights/Days Do You Sarge?

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JT47319

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At my peak when I first started actively sarging, I was going out SEVEN nights a week.

At around 200 sets, I got over my fear of approaching and usually only need one (1) set to feel warmed up for the night.

In my pre-PUA days, I might go out once a week. Sometimes not even then.

If you are not sarging at least TWO NIGHTS/DAYS MINIMUM, you will never get good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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By sarging, do you mean going out to clubs/bars every night? To the mall? To class?
I go out clubbing once a week, the night before my off day (I work six days a week) and usually go to the mall that day. Clubbing is too damn expensive to do more than twice a week.
I live in a small town, so it's not like I can walk down the city sidewalks every night and "sarge".
Even the local club scene has its drawbacks. There are two or three hot spots, and it's the same faces every weekend. It gets stale.
 

DJ_Dork

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what the hell is sarge? to the poster, post the definition, b1tch.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
what the hell is sarge? to the poster, post the definition, b1tch.
You need an attitude adjustment bro. Sarging means going out with wingmen looking to PU chicks.


PIMP
 

wolfie

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sargeing means approaching too, not just going to clubs with your friends and ****ing around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JT47319

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Sarging solo or with wings.

Day or night so long as its expressly to interact with girls in a given amount of time. Not 5 minutes at a bus stop, but actively sarging for several hours, just like if you were at a club from 10PM to 2PM.
 
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