"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How Many Nights/Days Do You Sarge?

How Many Nights/Days Do You Sarge?

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JT47319

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At my peak when I first started actively sarging, I was going out SEVEN nights a week.

At around 200 sets, I got over my fear of approaching and usually only need one (1) set to feel warmed up for the night.

In my pre-PUA days, I might go out once a week. Sometimes not even then.

If you are not sarging at least TWO NIGHTS/DAYS MINIMUM, you will never get good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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By sarging, do you mean going out to clubs/bars every night? To the mall? To class?
I go out clubbing once a week, the night before my off day (I work six days a week) and usually go to the mall that day. Clubbing is too damn expensive to do more than twice a week.
I live in a small town, so it's not like I can walk down the city sidewalks every night and "sarge".
Even the local club scene has its drawbacks. There are two or three hot spots, and it's the same faces every weekend. It gets stale.
 

DJ_Dork

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what the hell is sarge? to the poster, post the definition, b1tch.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
what the hell is sarge? to the poster, post the definition, b1tch.
You need an attitude adjustment bro. Sarging means going out with wingmen looking to PU chicks.


PIMP
 

wolfie

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sargeing means approaching too, not just going to clubs with your friends and ****ing around.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JT47319

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Sarging solo or with wings.

Day or night so long as its expressly to interact with girls in a given amount of time. Not 5 minutes at a bus stop, but actively sarging for several hours, just like if you were at a club from 10PM to 2PM.
 
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