"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How many languages do you speak?

Guitar_Whizz

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I'm English but I'm a fan of learning foreign languages. Who here can speak more than 1 language fluently? How did you learn, and which languages can you speak?

Also, anyone tried seducting girls in a foreign language i.e. not their native tongue?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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English, mandarin, cantonese, a decent amount of japanese, some korean, and little to none french now.

I've picked up chicks using english, mandarin, cantonese, and korean.
 

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Mandarin & Spanish are the languages to learn in the 21st Century.
 

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read tim ferriss blogs very cool when it comes 2 languages :cool:
 

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I speak english. I'm interested in learning another language however. :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Leporello

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English, Spanish, Italian, and a smattering of French and Vietnamese.
 

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English, could be fluent in Spanish if I was immersed in it, and I know very little French and German and am interested in learning them if I ever get time.
 

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English (obviously), but I am studying Mandarin. I have tried using my limited Mandarin to pick up a Taiwanese girl and it worked well, definitely an easy way to score some points.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guitar_Whizz

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Cr1msonKing said:
English, Pashto, Urdu.

Interested in learning Spanish though. I'm probably gonna hop on that Rosetta Stone.


Any one have in experience in it? My friends gonna get it, and I figured I'll just borrow it and burn it.
I haven't tried Rosetta Stone, but it looks pretty good from what I've seen of it.

I myself have used Pimsleur Method and Michel Thomas Method to learn the basics of several foreign languages; they are expensive to buy but you can get them at your local library for free, or on torrent sites (but I didn't tell you that, ok :)). They are really good and you'll get speaking the language(s) of your choice effortlessly and quickly.
 

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Hebrew, French, and English. I'm Israeli born and moved to France when i was almost six. My household was English and Hebrew and I learned french when i moved to France.

Easier for a kid from what i hear.

Cr1mson I've heard you cant burn the rossetta software, something about license something or other. It will only download once. Just what i've heard from others tho.
 

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my friend has downloaded all the language packs but is looking currently for the install download which is proving to be a problem.
 

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I speak English, Urdu, punjabi, Hindi extremely fluently. I learnt French, gujrati and Arabic through work and tv and studied Cantonese and Italian at school.

I've used almost every language to flirt/pick up guys and it works. Erotic talk using these languages is quite the foreplay. I love being chatted up in French ;)
 

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I picked up a German exchange student at our local university bar a couple weeks ago. I was speaking German back and forth with a Norwegian chick in their group (neither of us were fluent, it was good for laughs). The German chick heard us and said, "Sprechen sie Deutche?"

I said, "Ich habe Wienerschnitzel in mein Liederhosen."

She was rolling on the floor, and I was "in maq herr Flynn":woo:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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English, swedish and farsi:)
 

Aiken_Drum

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Well, spanish as my mother tongue, a good english (hope so :D) and I'm learning the basics of german. Next year, portuguese. I wanna go back to Brazil, but this time being able to speak something. The good thing is that if you have a good spanish, when they speak slowly you can understand the most important things being said. That works the other way around.
 
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