How many hours a week do you work?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Now clearly we as DJs have to work on ourselves and improve. Get out more and be more social, start exercising a lot and lift weights, take the time to groom yourself etc. But where is the time in all of this if say you are working all the time? You need money to have a gym membership, to go buy better looking clothes, to actually go out more. We all know this. I know all of you preaching money is the key will try to use this against me saying how this is the sole factor of getting women, but what you retards don’t understand is that money alone isn’t getting you women (unless you are paying hookers), it’s the fact that you DO actually groom yourself well, workout, have decent social skills, or you were just at the right place at the right time and got lucky say online or something.

But here is what I want to know:

If you work so much, where do you find the time and energy to make yourself more attractive?

You likely will lose a crap ton of sleep if you do follow through with it all and shorten up your lifespan a bit too. Plus, you’ll never have enough time for vacation or retirement either because all of your leftover money is spent trying to look good and be good. The only exception to this are those in stock markets or have an inheritance of some sort. Or maybe they won the lottery. Thing is, it’s hard to live comfortably working only 40 hours a week. And not very many jobs pay enough for that to even be a good standard of living (not in the US anyway).

 

[Serenity]

I groom myself sometimes, but other times I just don't care about trying to impress someone else. That's what it really is, trying to impress others.

I don't work out, I hate doing that. The only reason I would have done it would be to please someone else's superficial ideal, that just doesn't cut it as motivation for me.

When you minimize your expenses trying to impress others you can instead spend it on something that actually makes you happy. People waste their time and sacrifice their happiness in the hunt for sex or love, the actions intended to lead to happiness has then instead lead to stress, anxiety and a feeling of inferiority.

Sleep is extremely important!!! If this lacks then everything else we do trying to better our lives becomes meaningless. It's a direct cause of unhappiness.

I work on average 33.6 hours a week and have plenty of money to live comfortably. Probably isn't comparable since I live in Norway, but still it's possible to be in a bad life situation by having the wrong priorities.

I don't walk out my door every day set on practicing socialization, I don't even think about it. Any natural person doesn't think about how to socialize, that's bizarre. It's just talking, people just do it. It comes back to this stupidity of trying to impress others, why do people think it's such a good idea? People aren't that stupid, they notice when someone tries to impress them and it's awkward. I cringe when I meet such people, it's the exact opposite of cool.

Basically, **** all of that.

 

[Von]

I work an average of 70 hours à week building the business
Gym/squash: around 10 hours a week
Dance: 6 hours à week
Study time in the mix: Average 20-30 hours a week
Sleep: average 7 hours

Girl time? Saturday night only for 3 hours à week or whatever i bump into during my day

Likely have 8 to 10 hours of free time a week... which are into planning, traveling, studying

 

[sosousage]

0. my parents work full time. why?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I work an average of 70 hours à week building the business
Gym/squash: around 10 hours a week
Dance: 6 hours à week
Sleep: average 7 hours

Girl time? Saturday night only for 3 hours à week or whatever i bump into during my day

What business is that?

 

[Julian]

Currently Im putting in the ol 40 hour work week. I refuse to work for more then that when its someone elses company. this could be my last day on earth...did i want the last week to have been spent at some BULLCHIT job?

Nah


But at the same time we must invest time and effort to acquire currency in order to live. The problem is our debt slave society is setup to fk u over...especially nowadays when most people live paycheck to paycheck and people are earning less while working more. etc etc.all that bs.

 

[RangerMIke]

I have several businesses I manage or partner with... I put in a lot of hours, but I lock in my calendar 8 weeks out... It's the only way to be. Some weeks are crazy, depending on what is going on, some... I'm pacing the floors making work for myself. My typical day starts at 4:30 am. Bike for 1.5 hours (usually 18-20 miles depending on the wind), Yoga from 6:30-7:30 am, working by 8 off by 6 pm. Usually it works out to be 55 hours a week, but I have put in 12 hours days.

I'll date 2-4 times a week. I plan my off time the way I plan my work schedule... I go to what I want and invite women to the events I think they would like and be fun. Very seldom am I out late, I'm usually in bed, with or without company by 10 pm. When I am in town I ALWAYS sleep at home... I never sleep over at a chicks house EVER. I only need 6 hours of sleep a night... but sleep in on Saturday.

Weekends are for my kids... I never mix women with my kids. I NEVER work on weekends.... I plan my time so that sh!t never happens. I'm a pure dad Friday-Sunday.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I groom myself sometimes, but other times I just don't care about trying to impress someone else. That's what it really is, trying to impress others.

I don't work out, I hate doing that. The only reason I would have done it would be to please someone else's superficial ideal, that just doesn't cut it as motivation for me.

When you minimize your expenses trying to impress others you can instead spend it on something that actually makes you happy. People waste their time and sacrifice their happiness in the hunt for sex or love, the actions intended to lead to happiness has then instead lead to stress, anxiety and a feeling of inferiority.

Sleep is extremely important!!! If this lacks then everything else we do trying to better our lives becomes meaningless. It's a direct cause of unhappiness.

I work on average 33.6 hours a week and have plenty of money to live comfortably. Probably isn't comparable since I live in Norway, but still it's possible to be in a bad life situation by having the wrong priorities.

I don't walk out my door every day set on practicing socialization, I don't even think about it. Any natural person doesn't think about how to socialize, that's bizarre. It's just talking, people just do it. It comes back to this stupidity of trying to impress others, why do people think it's such a good idea? People aren't that stupid, they notice when someone tries to impress them and it's awkward. I cringe when I meet such people, it's the exact opposite of cool.

Basically, **** all of that.

Welcome back. Couldn’t stay away from us forever could you?

Yeah I’m in the US so 33 to 34 hours a week is no way to make a living unless you have a super high end job and are living by yourself. In which case you would probably be in your mid 30s at the very earliest, not 26 lol. You Nords are some lucky people.

I work an average of 70 hours à week building the business
Gym/squash: around 10 hours a week
Dance: 6 hours à week
Study time in the mix: Average 20-30 hours a week
Sleep: average 7 hours

Girl time? Saturday night only for 3 hours à week or whatever i bump into during my day

Likely have 8 to 10 hours of free time a week... which are into planning, traveling, studying

Do you feel that you are living comfortably?

Currently Im putting in the ol 40 hour work week. I refuse to work for more then that when its someone elses company. this could be my last day on earth...did i want the last week to have been spent at some BULLCHIT job?

Nah


But at the same time we must invest time and effort to acquire currency in order to live. The problem is our debt slave society is setup to fk u over...especially nowadays when most people live paycheck to paycheck and people are earning less while working more. etc etc.all that bs.

Amen brother. Every one of your posts is like an inner me speaking out with a complete ‘**** it’ attitude haha

I have several businesses I manage or partner with... I put in a lot of hours, but I lock in my calendar 8 weeks out... It's the only way to be. Some weeks are crazy, depending on what is going on, some... I'm pacing the floors making work for myself. My typical day starts at 4:30 am. Bike for 1.5 hours (usually 18-20 miles depending on the wind), Yoga from 6:30-7:30 am, working by 8 off by 6 pm. Usually it works out to be 55 hours a week, but I have put in 12 hours days.

I'll date 2-4 times a week. I plan my off time the way I plan my work schedule... I go to what I want and invite women to the events I think they would like and be fun. Very seldom am I out late, I'm usually in bed, with or without company by 10 pm. When I am in town I ALWAYS sleep at home... I never sleep over at a chicks house EVER. I only need 6 hours of sleep a night... but sleep in on Saturday.

Weekends are for my kids... I never mix women with my kids. I NEVER work on weekends.... I plan my time so that sh!t never happens. I'm a pure dad Friday-Sunday.

How much do you sleep on your off days?

 

[Mike32ct]

About 49. 7 hrs per day, 7 days a week.

 

[RangerMIke]

How much do you sleep on your off days?

Only on Saturday... Most will laugh but I usually sleep in on Saturday until 8 am, that for me is sleeping in late. I've always been like this, I'm fine with 5-6 hours of sleep a night, and I can go a long time on 4 hours a night.... but eventually it catches up with me. By the time I get in bed I'm exhausted and fall asleep almost as soon as I hit the sheets.

 

[Serenity]

Welcome back. Couldn’t stay away from us forever could you?

Nah, but it did me good to get some distance and with another drama queen (temporarily) gone it's more pleasant to enter discussions again.

Yeah I’m in the US so 33 to 34 hours a week is no way to make a living unless you have a super high end job and are living by yourself. In which case you would probably be in your mid 30s at the very earliest, not 26 lol. You Nords are some lucky people.

Such a shame, the US would benefit from some thoroughly thought out socialism.

I immediately got an apprenticeship after school at age 18. Worked like that for 2 years while living at home saving a ton of money. Rented a cheap apartment at age 19 and a half. Saved another ton of money for 2 years and then had enough money to get a loan to buy an apartment at age 22.

I pay expenses for my apartment, my car, I save $650 every month and have plenty of money left over to go out eating at restaurants and travel on vacation twice a year.

I have zero student debt. My only debt is my apartment loan, but as I'm paying it down I'm basically just getting richer every month.

I don't have a particularly high end job either, I work at an industrial factory.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Nah, but it did me good to get some distance and with another drama queen (temporarily) gone it's more pleasant to enter discussions again.

Such a shame, the US would benefit from some thoroughly thought out socialism.

I immediately got an apprenticeship after school at age 18. Worked like that for 2 years while living at home saving a ton of money. Rented a cheap apartment at age 19 and a half. Saved another ton of money for 2 years and then had enough money to get a loan to buy an apartment at age 22.

I pay expenses for my apartment, my car, I save $650 every month and have plenty of money left over to go out eating at restaurants and travel on vacation twice a year.

I have zero student debt. My only debt is my apartment loan, but as I'm paying it down I'm basically just getting richer every month.

I don't have a particularly high end job either, I work at an industrial factory.

Yes well I suppose that this is what Marx was talking about when he said that all capitalism has to develop into socialism at one point or another; at some point a select few get too greedy and make it a competition to see who can be the richest, and you can’t do that without screwing over others along the way. I still don’t believe in full-fledged socialism, and I honestly still do prefer complete capitalism. I just want to get rid of corruption. Should the US get rid of all corruption, then we’d be much better off than the rest of the world.

 

[Rainman4707]

I work on average 55 hours a week. One week i might work 36 hours, the next 72.

I still am in good shape. I work in security so i study a lot at work.

I am still attractive in terms of i keep myself fit & groomed.

What does concern me a little is the unsociable hours i work & the long term health problems working in security might give me.

I'm not going to change my lifestyle just to be more attractive to a woman.

 

[Tenacity]

Now clearly we as DJs have to work on ourselves and improve. Get out more and be more social, start exercising a lot and lift weights, take the time to groom yourself etc. But where is the time in all of this if say you are working all the time? You need money to have a gym membership, to go buy better looking clothes, to actually go out more. We all know this. I know all of you preaching money is the key will try to use this against me saying how this is the sole factor of getting women, but what you retards don’t understand is that money alone isn’t getting you women (unless you are paying hookers), it’s the fact that you DO actually groom yourself well, workout, have decent social skills, or you were just at the right place at the right time and got lucky say online or something.

But here is what I want to know:

If you work so much, where do you find the time and energy to make yourself more attractive?

You likely will lose a crap ton of sleep if you do follow through with it all and shorten up your lifespan a bit too. Plus, you’ll never have enough time for vacation or retirement either because all of your leftover money is spent trying to look good and be good. The only exception to this are those in stock markets or have an inheritance of some sort. Or maybe they won the lottery. Thing is, it’s hard to live comfortably working only 40 hours a week. And not very many jobs pay enough for that to even be a good standard of living (not in the US anyway).

I honestly don't punch a clock, so who knows how many hours per week I'm doing "work related stuff". My thing is that you should have a priority list in life, mine looks like the following:

- Career and Investments related stuff

- Health and Fitness related stuff (including mental health and spiritual health)

- Clothing, Residence, Car, and other Personal items/assets related stuff

- Women related

- Family related

- Other Friends/Associates related

But this is my list and I'm not saying everybody's list should look like mine. Family is WAY down the list (lower than Women) because you guys already know I really don't have a Family structure. To be perfectly honest with you, the Family, Other Friends, and Associates areas really don't get hardly ANY time of mine.

I really don't have a Family and I honestly don't have any real "regular" Friends/Associates I hang with like that either.

The people I "hang with" the most are either people related to my Career/Investments (business partners, people I work with, etc.) and Women I'm dating/spinning. I know that might not be ideal, but it's been how my life has been structured for a number of years now.

 

[Poonani Maker]

60+ If I have plans for Friday night I have to bust my as5 to get home at a decent time to go out. Kinda ruins my time with said girl too because I'm so tattered and rushed.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Currently Im putting in the ol 40 hour work week. I refuse to work for more then that when its someone elses company. this could be my last day on earth...did i want the last week to have been spent at some BULLCHIT job?

Nah


But at the same time we must invest time and effort to acquire currency in order to live. The problem is our debt slave society is setup to fk u over...especially nowadays when most people live paycheck to paycheck and people are earning less while working more. etc etc.all that bs.

You should work 40.0 unless your paid by the hour.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I honestly don't punch a clock, so who knows how many hours per week I'm doing "work related stuff". My thing is that you should have a priority list in life, mine looks like the following:

- Career and Investments related stuff

- Health and Fitness related stuff (including mental health and spiritual health)

- Clothing, Residence, Car, and other Personal items/assets related stuff

- Women related

- Family related

- Other Friends/Associates related

But this is my list and I'm not saying everybody's list should look like mine. Family is WAY down the list (lower than Women) because you guys already know I really don't have a Family structure. To be perfectly honest with you, the Family, Other Friends, and Associates areas really don't get hardly ANY time of mine.

I really don't have a Family and I honestly don't have any real "regular" Friends/Associates I hang with like that either.

The people I "hang with" the most are either people related to my Career/Investments (business partners, people I work with, etc.) and Women I'm dating/spinning. I know that might not be ideal, but it's been how my life has been structured for a number of years now.

Do you ever meet people through the women you get with? All women talk, so I’d assume that after dealing with so many of them you’d come across at least a few dudes who seem alright with you. You can’t just burn a bridge after you’re done banging her, always gotta leave on good terms you know?

 

[Tenacity]

Do you ever meet people through the women you get with? All women talk, so I’d assume that after dealing with so many of them you’d come across at least a few dudes who seem alright with you. You can’t just burn a bridge after you’re done banging her, always gotta leave on good terms you know?

Oh yeah, I meet people all of the time that might be her family or friends......but once I'm done talking to her, I don't stay in contact with those people. Again, my entire life is just "different" and I'm not telling anybody on here to take my exact outline.

If I had a CHOICE in the matter, my priority list would be the following:

- Family

- Friends and Women I'm Close With

- Health and Fitness related stuff (including mental health and spiritual health)

- Clothing, Residence, Car, and other Personal items/assets related stuff

- Career and Investments related stuff

Yes, "MONEY" related stuff would be at the very bottom because I really wouldn't work as hard as I do now. I would work just enough to not be paycheck-to-paycheck, have money in the bank, and have a nice solid steady income coming in. The vast majority of my time, focus, and life would be with my family, friends, and the women in my life who actually give a damn about me.

But unfortunately, my life didn't turn out that way, so I put "making money" at the top and I involve myself in a variety of different things to keep myself busy. It's why I've said before on here.....you guys want to bash the Blue Pill Guy but it's MUCH BETTER in life to be the Blue Pill Guy than the Red Pill Guy. The Blue Pill Guy (most of them) have real family and friends who care about them, and the women in their life (even if they are somewhat "dirty") still treat the guy with enough care to where he doesn't notice it.

It's us Red Pill Guys that are stuck on the internet doing rant sessions and having to focus on "money and working out" as the NUMBER ONE things in our lives because many of us have a svck-a.ss family situation and a svck-a.ss friends situation.

 

[logicallefty]

Three jobs: on average 40 hours + ~15 hours + ~ 3 hours . The older I get the less I care about women and socializing. When I am not working and taking care of work around the house or seeing my daughter, I like to do things to help better myself be it exercise, study, or whatever. I turn down invitations with friends every week and invitations with the women reaching out to me very regularly. People in general have disappointed me so bad. Other then my daughter I love myself more than anybody else. And I would rather spend my spare time with myself then other people. Maybe this is just a phase. But lately it has been working great for me.

 

[Serenity]

Yes well I suppose that this is what Marx was talking about when he said that all capitalism has to develop into socialism at one point or another; at some point a select few get too greedy and make it a competition to see who can be the richest, and you can’t do that without screwing over others along the way. I still don’t believe in full-fledged socialism, and I honestly still do prefer complete capitalism. I just want to get rid of corruption. Should the US get rid of all corruption, then we’d be much better off than the rest of the world.

Norway still has capitalism, but it's more socialistic than the US. I don't think full fledged socialism is a good idea either, it's too vulnerable to corruption. Capitalism and socialism work great as a hybrid if you ask me, they moderate each other.

I think the larger problem for the US in any case is corruption, incompetence and selfishness. Because of this (justified) distrust of the government people there are reluctant to support going in a slightly more socialistic direction.

Being admitted to a hospital here costs nothing, going to the doctor for minor things or checkups costs a small fee though. Education is free all the way through University. That's 2 massive concerns in life we don't have and it would not work with capitalism. Money belonging to the public actually goes back to the public in the form of services. The social safety net here is designed to prevent people from falling out of society, this ultimately strengthens our economy and benefits everyone. This wouldn't be possible with a lot of corruption though.