"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many girls have you slept without using a condom?

OldbutSTRONG

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I just got my results from HIV testing and it's negative. Had a few nights with girl I met on the computer and I was stupid and didn't use a condom all the time. Thought with my little head instead and didn't bother after the first time.

Counting everything(long-term, short-term, one night stands) how many women have you had sexual intercourse without the use of a condom? I imagine there must be a few guys here who number in the hundreds without the rubber.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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:(

ehhh. Lets say I'm doing better now.
 
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As someone who is about to embark on a Military career, I wouldn't go into battle without a helmet and there is no way I'm having sex without a rubber. Even in relationships I refuse to have sex without a condom. I just won't allow it to happen.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SoldMySoul

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
:(

ehhh. Lets say I'm doing better now.
HAHAHAHA!!!!! ^^^^^^THIS^^^^^ Starting yesterday as a matter a fact and I feel much better for doing so. My blood work came back good from last Wednesday and No STDs... So yesterday, I was eager to use a condom when she asked did I have one... EVEN if she didn't, I was strapping jimmy on!!! Thanks Lifestyles extra sensitive in da purple box!!

In the future, I will NOT USE one in a committed relationship..and a committed one only!!
 

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A couple months ago I went raw in this girl and I messed up and actually busted in her. Now she was cool and got the plan b (I didn't even have to pay anything). But when I was thinking about it I gave this girl my seed and she could have easily said no to the pill. If she said that and I got her pregnant then I would have been screwed. In my head I was like this is very unfortunate because this was probably the ugliest girl I have ever slept with. HB 6 with banging body. I can't have a kid with an unnactractive girl. This would mess me up mentally! So since then I been keeping it safe. (Unless she is a dime :p)
 

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That's none of your business, but happy you didn't get anything from that girl you slept with.
 

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I've never understood the raw situation. I realize it feels better but my theory is, I LOVE sex. Sex is my life. I don't want there to come a time where I won't be able to have it, because of a serious std, nor do i wanna get a **** buddy pregnant.

I realize it's in the heat of the moment but if you think going raw is some sort of rite of passage that makes you more of a man than those who wrap up, have fun
 

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Guys don't get HIV from females. Just saying. The odds are a zillion to one. But, Americans also believe that soldiers protect them from evil people and that Iraq had nuclear bombs. Go figure.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BigJimbo said:
Guys don't get HIV from females. Just saying. The odds are a zillion to one.
Jimbo's right. Even among married couples in Africa where the woman is HIV+ and the man is negative, and they never use condoms, the rate of transmission is very low, about 1% chance per year. But if the US government told you that, no one would wear condoms, and syphilis and the clap would be rampant like they used to be.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Jimbo's right. Even among married couples in Africa where the woman is HIV+ and the man is negative, and they never use condoms, the rate of transmission is very low, about 1% chance per year. But if the US government told you that, no one would wear condoms, and syphilis and the clap would be rampant like they used to be.
I never knew that. Very interesting. Married couple and the guy is negative but never uses a condom and transmission is very low?

I was hoping for some real honest answers by more posters.

For myself I believe it's 12 women without condom, and thankfully I'm still negative. None of the women were hookers or drug users.
 

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I unloaded plenty of times without a condom with this one girl. She said she could still smell me when she pee'd the next morning. :D We were in a steady relationship. It felt good. She was on the pill. No STD's and no kids. :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I had one GF that was infertile (legit, saw her med records) and she was clean, so I went to town on her without condom. Sort of knew it wouldn't work out because of her infertility (dealbreaker for me, tried to get passed it)
 

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perseverance said:
As someone who is about to embark on a Military career, I wouldn't go into battle without a helmet and there is no way I'm having sex without a rubber.
But you do realize that a helmet is only a token protection (sorry) and that some of the nastiest STDs (herpes is a big one) you can also get while using a condom right?

perseverance said:
in relationships I refuse to have sex without a condom. I just won't allow it to happen.
it just makes me sad to read that... Not saying you have to be as irresponsible as I've been at times (lucky to be clean though) but if you're using condoms in a relationship you're really missing out on half the fun. I don't care what nobody says, sex with a condom is like eating a candy with the wrapper on, only half the fun.
 

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In the words of the late and great comedian Sam Kinison:

"If you don't trust the pvssy, then why are you fvcking the pvssy?????"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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