"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many girls have you made out with?

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A girl asked me this on a date and I didn't know how to respond. I told her, "Twelve, so you'll be the lucky 13, excited?" She laughed and said yeah, and I got some. But it got me thinking...

I don't know how many girls I've kissed. It's over 30. I can't remember or name them all. How messed up is that?

How many have you guys played?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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6 in the past year..

2 were 10 minutes apart. its a small improvement
 

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I think the best answer in these questions from a girl is to just tell the truth.

You've kissed over 30 girls and don't even remember the names of them all.
It's not ****ed up!

I tried counting girls that I've kissed like a year ago and I got to somewhere near 50 but then more and more of these "cases" kept popping to my head I had to stop counting getting result of plenty.
I think you shouldn't worry about not remembering their names... 30 names is lot to remember already.

And it's not that bad to not remember names of girls you've kissed.
There's 4 girls I've ****ed whose names I don't remember (or never knew)! :confused:

Holy ****! :eek:
 

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a million
 

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Too many to remember, i just love the honey...what more can i say?! :D

-Malachi
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sadly, none. But when you're a guy like me, it's hard even making friends with a girl.
 

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One but she was really bad at it. She lasted maybe 3 seconds. Of course then I made the mistake by saying "A first grader could top that." Although mayeb that was a good thing, she started to get attatched to me, and she became even more white trash than before. Shes also married at 18. I need to be more careful
 

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Well I didn't really get into my game until this year. I've made out with 4 girls total and kissed a good 5 or 6 but I don't take it as a bragging type thing. I could have done better but I've been busy between my hobbies and school to really set some time off to go after chicks, the ones I've made out with are ones where it just kinda happened on the spot because we could get somewhere semi-private and I didn't have to be anywhere. The fact that I'm a freshman at highschool and won't be able to drive for another year and 2 days and the fact I have mega-over-protective parents doesn't help but I refuse to use it as an excuse. The good news is all the women I've gotten so far are upperclass people, freshmen girls are too caught up in their own dramatic bull**** and immature to be good canidates for dating.
 

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I left the AFC state only this year, so, none.
But I'll get them. I'll get them. ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey boys been a while.

man im surprised alot of you guys dont kiss alot of girls. when i first started working on my game i got to where i could go to the movies and come home a few hours later having kissed 2 or three girls, and some nights five or so. but if you dont move quickly (which i hardly ever do) that buyers remorse will kill your chances of getting further.

but kissings nothing.
 
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