"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How many girls have you made out with?

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A girl asked me this on a date and I didn't know how to respond. I told her, "Twelve, so you'll be the lucky 13, excited?" She laughed and said yeah, and I got some. But it got me thinking...

I don't know how many girls I've kissed. It's over 30. I can't remember or name them all. How messed up is that?

How many have you guys played?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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6 in the past year..

2 were 10 minutes apart. its a small improvement
 

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I think the best answer in these questions from a girl is to just tell the truth.

You've kissed over 30 girls and don't even remember the names of them all.
It's not ****ed up!

I tried counting girls that I've kissed like a year ago and I got to somewhere near 50 but then more and more of these "cases" kept popping to my head I had to stop counting getting result of plenty.
I think you shouldn't worry about not remembering their names... 30 names is lot to remember already.

And it's not that bad to not remember names of girls you've kissed.
There's 4 girls I've ****ed whose names I don't remember (or never knew)! :confused:

Holy ****! :eek:
 

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a million
 

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Too many to remember, i just love the honey...what more can i say?! :D

-Malachi
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sadly, none. But when you're a guy like me, it's hard even making friends with a girl.
 

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One but she was really bad at it. She lasted maybe 3 seconds. Of course then I made the mistake by saying "A first grader could top that." Although mayeb that was a good thing, she started to get attatched to me, and she became even more white trash than before. Shes also married at 18. I need to be more careful
 

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Well I didn't really get into my game until this year. I've made out with 4 girls total and kissed a good 5 or 6 but I don't take it as a bragging type thing. I could have done better but I've been busy between my hobbies and school to really set some time off to go after chicks, the ones I've made out with are ones where it just kinda happened on the spot because we could get somewhere semi-private and I didn't have to be anywhere. The fact that I'm a freshman at highschool and won't be able to drive for another year and 2 days and the fact I have mega-over-protective parents doesn't help but I refuse to use it as an excuse. The good news is all the women I've gotten so far are upperclass people, freshmen girls are too caught up in their own dramatic bull**** and immature to be good canidates for dating.
 

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I left the AFC state only this year, so, none.
But I'll get them. I'll get them. ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey boys been a while.

man im surprised alot of you guys dont kiss alot of girls. when i first started working on my game i got to where i could go to the movies and come home a few hours later having kissed 2 or three girls, and some nights five or so. but if you dont move quickly (which i hardly ever do) that buyers remorse will kill your chances of getting further.

but kissings nothing.
 
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