"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many girls have you kissed in an outing?

Ouzo

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Just wondering...

Any setting - parties, get together, spa games, etc.

I've tounged down (haha) four different girls at one party. All drunk chicks and so was I. Didn't really care.

And you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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there're all drunk? wheres tha challeng in that?
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
there're all drunk? wheres tha challeng in that?
Exactly...
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
there're all drunk? wheres tha challeng in that?
Is it about having a challenge or getting what you want?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
psh one time at the movies i ended up kissing five SOBER girls.

bwahaha.
I don't believe that
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
I don't believe that
i could care less if u believe it or not, it happened.

i made out with two of them and kissed (with a little tongue) the other three
 

Jerky Boi

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Very nice. How the heck did you end up going to the movies with 5 chicks anyways? That's kinda strange.
 

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i went to the movies with my friends and moved on from girl to girl.

psh i dont go to the movies with chicks unless we're steady.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Is it about having a challenge or getting what you want?
Lol exactly.

Sober? I have only kissed two in an outing. They were two girls I was dating at the time.

I couldn't care less if they were a challenge or not. I want sex. If I get sex, I'm a happy kid. Its that easy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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