"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

"how many girls have you had sex with?" whats the answer in diff scenarios

F

FBA808

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 1, 2005
Messages
45
Reaction score
0
Age
43
okay look, I know this might be a stupid question, but I'd really just appreciate honest answers without any references to how stupid this question may be. so with that said...

I'm gonna have different scenarios, all with one girl and one guy... let's pretend I am the guy and the girl is some girl.

IF:

If I am 18 and she is 25, and I have only had sex with 1 girl and she has had sex with lots of guys, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

If I am 18 and she is 25, and I have had sex with lots of girls and she has only had sex with 1 guy, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or lie and say just 1?

If I am 18 and she is 25, and we both have only had sex with 1 person, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

If I am 18 and she is 25, and we both have had sex with lots of people, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or should I lie and say just 1?

now I'm gonna just switch ages...

If I am 25 and she is 18, and I have only had sex with 1 girl and she has had sex with lots of guys, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

If I am 25 and she is 18, and I have had sex with lots of girls and she has only had sex with 1 guy, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or lie and say just 1?

If I am 25 and she is 18, and we both have only had sex with 1 person, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

If I am 25 and she is 18, and we both have had sex with lots of people, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or should I lie and say just 1?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

I

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
So, basicly your question is.. What to say when a girl asks how many girls you had sex with. You got different scenarios but, with the same question. So, lets keep it simple.

Either you can lie or tell her the truth.

You can say you don't kiss and tell. You can say a few. You can say too many to remember.
 
F

FBA808

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 1, 2005
Messages
45
Reaction score
0
Age
43
I.A.F.Y.B. said:
So, basicly your question is.. What to say when a girl asks how many girls you had sex with. You got different scenarios but, with the same question. So, lets keep it simple.

Either you can lie or tell her the truth.

You can say you don't kiss and tell. You can say a few. You can say too many to remember.
Click to expand...
well i know that in any of those situations you COULD do this or you COULD do that but what SHOULD you do in any of those situations?
 
O

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
FBA808 said:
well i know that in any of those situations you COULD do this or you COULD do that but what SHOULD you do in any of those situations?
Click to expand...
You should do whatever you think you should do. If you wanna tell her, do it, if not, dont.
 
B

Beast from the East

Banned
Joined
May 24, 2008
Messages
49
Reaction score
0
The last time I was asked how many girls I slept with, I said "a million"

It raised her interest. Don't worry about telling her the truth. Tell her whatever will raise her interest.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

S

SmoothTalker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2003
Messages
1,020
Reaction score
12
Location
Canada
I think a more important scenario detail you missed is the relationship between the girl and the guy.

If its a ONS, say whatever the hell you want.

If its a **** buddy, you can probably tell the truth if its a lot (since they obviously aren't too hung up on sex, being **** buddies and all) or exaggerate if its a small number, or really say what you want.

If it's a long term relationship, you should probably tell the truth because odds are it will come out at some point, and the other person would probably not be too happy to find out you slept around a LOT if you claimed to be practically a virgin, or vice versa.
 
D

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
35
FBA808 said:
okay look, I know this might be a stupid question, but I'd really just appreciate honest answers without any references to how stupid this question may be. so with that said...

I'm gonna have different scenarios, all with one girl and one guy... let's pretend I am the guy and the girl is some girl.

IF:

If I am 18 and she is 25, and I have only had sex with 1 girl and she has had sex with lots of guys, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

If I am 18 and she is 25, and I have had sex with lots of girls and she has only had sex with 1 guy, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or lie and say just 1?

If I am 18 and she is 25, and we both have only had sex with 1 person, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

If I am 18 and she is 25, and we both have had sex with lots of people, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or should I lie and say just 1?

You are 25. What are talking about "If I am 18?" You have time machine in your backyard?

If I am 25 and she is 18, and I have only had sex with 1 girl and she has had sex with lots of guys, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

Tell her the truth.

If I am 25 and she is 18, and I have had sex with lots of girls and she has only had sex with 1 guy, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or lie and say just 1?

Tell her the truth.

If I am 25 and she is 18, and we both have only had sex with 1 person, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (1) or lie and say more?

Tell her the truth.

If I am 25 and she is 18, and we both have had sex with lots of people, and she asks me "how many girls have you had sex with?" what should I answer? the truth (lots) or should I lie and say just 1?

Tell her the truth.
Click to expand...
What if you lie and your friends tell her the truth? What if you lie and she finds out from your ex-girlfriends? What if you lie and she can tell you don't what you are doing in bed?

Of course, if you looking for a ONS, do whatever you want to get into her pants.
 
B

baurman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2006
Messages
235
Reaction score
7
just say "ya know i dont really keep track of that kinda stuff and i dont expect you to either."
 
B

BadsnakeUK

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2008
Messages
154
Reaction score
9
A knowing smile and "a gentleman never tells" is the correct response to all the above scenarios, followed by a quick chage of subject.
 
M

Moofahsa

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2007
Messages
203
Reaction score
3
Location
Deep South
Just say something that shows you are genuine. Like "I don't wear the number like a badge"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top