thinktank1985
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the title says it all....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how many girls have you fvcked so far
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thinktank1985
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you should have waited a bit...for the poll to come up... 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Excessive numbers are overrated. As much fun as fvcking is, if you're logging the hours to nail 50+, then most likely your grades suck, your tennis swing ain't so good (or whatever sport you play), perhaps your spiritual life/well-being is lacking etc, or your work career is suffering.
If you're leading a rich and balanced life, I'd find it hard to believe one would still be scoring 50+. And of the one way I know to do that (screwing any skank that crossese your path), is downright just plain wrong.
Even if I WASN'T married, I'd be doing great just to line up one "date"/rendevous per week given the amount of time I'd have left for it, and naturally that wouldn't be guaranteeing a scre*. And sure, if i happen to like one, I'm going to line the same one up again, so seems to me like also scoring 50+ means you really don't know how to pick a good one (or a few good ones in rotation/plate spinning).
If you're leading a rich and balanced life, I'd find it hard to believe one would still be scoring 50+. And of the one way I know to do that (screwing any skank that crossese your path), is downright just plain wrong.
Even if I WASN'T married, I'd be doing great just to line up one "date"/rendevous per week given the amount of time I'd have left for it, and naturally that wouldn't be guaranteeing a scre*. And sure, if i happen to like one, I'm going to line the same one up again, so seems to me like also scoring 50+ means you really don't know how to pick a good one (or a few good ones in rotation/plate spinning).
taiyuu_otoko
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I once had an awesome relationship with a girl. she'd come to my place, hang out, we'd fukk, we'd lay there a while, she'd give me a massage (with a happy ending) and then she'd leave. No drama, no games, only mutual pleasure. That lasted like that for about a year.
That ONE girl gave me more bliss than fifty that I would've had to chase and use all kinds of techniques and what not.
Quantity is nice, but once you get to a certain point, more numbers don't mean much.
You only need enough quantity to give you a basic idea of what you want, and then start going for quality.
That ONE girl gave me more bliss than fifty that I would've had to chase and use all kinds of techniques and what not.
Quantity is nice, but once you get to a certain point, more numbers don't mean much.
You only need enough quantity to give you a basic idea of what you want, and then start going for quality.
Colossus
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Most guys exaggerate. Most girls under-exaggerate.
Ive been with about 27-29 girls (sex) and probably another 15 or so for just bl0wjob/handjob.
I dont think that is really that much, but I'll admit I was slummin' it for a lot of that total. Was it worth it? Well, yes and no. Yes because I have a lot of experiences, some of them crazy. You cant substitute book-knowledge for sheer experience.
No, because like I said, I slummed it and got a few temporary infections and pregnancy scares from my stupidity. Those were hard, embarassing lessons to learn.
So yeah, I have seen a lot of pvssy and can tell my buddies some ridiculous stories, but it came with a price.
My advice to a young guy would be to get as much experience as you can without being an idiot. In other words, use condoms ALWAYS, and dont bang swampers.
Ive been with about 27-29 girls (sex) and probably another 15 or so for just bl0wjob/handjob.
I dont think that is really that much, but I'll admit I was slummin' it for a lot of that total. Was it worth it? Well, yes and no. Yes because I have a lot of experiences, some of them crazy. You cant substitute book-knowledge for sheer experience.
No, because like I said, I slummed it and got a few temporary infections and pregnancy scares from my stupidity. Those were hard, embarassing lessons to learn.
So yeah, I have seen a lot of pvssy and can tell my buddies some ridiculous stories, but it came with a price.
My advice to a young guy would be to get as much experience as you can without being an idiot. In other words, use condoms ALWAYS, and dont bang swampers.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's definitely manageable, azanon. And I didn't screw a lot of skanks along the way (okay maybe few skanks here and there...).azanon said:
I kept track back in college because me and a buddy from my frat were competing against one another. But we didn't just screw the first girl that looked at us. We made sure that we were as careful as possible (and this led to AFC behavior on my part at times).
Honestly, I lost count after 50 because I don't think that the number of women a man sleeps with makes him a DJ. Ironic statement from someone whose count was up to 50, eh? But I can't help myself when all these hot women throw themselves at me...
If you want to fvck guys, just fvck. But use common sense when deciding whom to fvck.
And as Rollo would say, "It's not how many women you've fvcked. It's how many women want to fvck you."
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
41, but remember, it's not about how many women you've ƒucked, but how many more WANT to ƒuck you.
This poll comes up every few months. I'm surprised that almost 10% have had 100+
Anyway guys don't feel bad if you are below 100 it's quality not quantity that counts.
There are plenty of guys who have only slept with a few women and are now happily married to the love of their life
Anyway guys don't feel bad if you are below 100 it's quality not quantity that counts.
There are plenty of guys who have only slept with a few women and are now happily married to the love of their life