thinktank1985
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the title says it all....
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how many girls have you fvcked so far
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thinktank1985
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you should have waited a bit...for the poll to come up... 
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Excessive numbers are overrated. As much fun as fvcking is, if you're logging the hours to nail 50+, then most likely your grades suck, your tennis swing ain't so good (or whatever sport you play), perhaps your spiritual life/well-being is lacking etc, or your work career is suffering.
If you're leading a rich and balanced life, I'd find it hard to believe one would still be scoring 50+. And of the one way I know to do that (screwing any skank that crossese your path), is downright just plain wrong.
Even if I WASN'T married, I'd be doing great just to line up one "date"/rendevous per week given the amount of time I'd have left for it, and naturally that wouldn't be guaranteeing a scre*. And sure, if i happen to like one, I'm going to line the same one up again, so seems to me like also scoring 50+ means you really don't know how to pick a good one (or a few good ones in rotation/plate spinning).
If you're leading a rich and balanced life, I'd find it hard to believe one would still be scoring 50+. And of the one way I know to do that (screwing any skank that crossese your path), is downright just plain wrong.
Even if I WASN'T married, I'd be doing great just to line up one "date"/rendevous per week given the amount of time I'd have left for it, and naturally that wouldn't be guaranteeing a scre*. And sure, if i happen to like one, I'm going to line the same one up again, so seems to me like also scoring 50+ means you really don't know how to pick a good one (or a few good ones in rotation/plate spinning).
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I once had an awesome relationship with a girl. she'd come to my place, hang out, we'd fukk, we'd lay there a while, she'd give me a massage (with a happy ending) and then she'd leave. No drama, no games, only mutual pleasure. That lasted like that for about a year.
That ONE girl gave me more bliss than fifty that I would've had to chase and use all kinds of techniques and what not.
Quantity is nice, but once you get to a certain point, more numbers don't mean much.
You only need enough quantity to give you a basic idea of what you want, and then start going for quality.
That ONE girl gave me more bliss than fifty that I would've had to chase and use all kinds of techniques and what not.
Quantity is nice, but once you get to a certain point, more numbers don't mean much.
You only need enough quantity to give you a basic idea of what you want, and then start going for quality.
Colossus
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Most guys exaggerate. Most girls under-exaggerate.
Ive been with about 27-29 girls (sex) and probably another 15 or so for just bl0wjob/handjob.
I dont think that is really that much, but I'll admit I was slummin' it for a lot of that total. Was it worth it? Well, yes and no. Yes because I have a lot of experiences, some of them crazy. You cant substitute book-knowledge for sheer experience.
No, because like I said, I slummed it and got a few temporary infections and pregnancy scares from my stupidity. Those were hard, embarassing lessons to learn.
So yeah, I have seen a lot of pvssy and can tell my buddies some ridiculous stories, but it came with a price.
My advice to a young guy would be to get as much experience as you can without being an idiot. In other words, use condoms ALWAYS, and dont bang swampers.
Ive been with about 27-29 girls (sex) and probably another 15 or so for just bl0wjob/handjob.
I dont think that is really that much, but I'll admit I was slummin' it for a lot of that total. Was it worth it? Well, yes and no. Yes because I have a lot of experiences, some of them crazy. You cant substitute book-knowledge for sheer experience.
No, because like I said, I slummed it and got a few temporary infections and pregnancy scares from my stupidity. Those were hard, embarassing lessons to learn.
So yeah, I have seen a lot of pvssy and can tell my buddies some ridiculous stories, but it came with a price.
My advice to a young guy would be to get as much experience as you can without being an idiot. In other words, use condoms ALWAYS, and dont bang swampers.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's definitely manageable, azanon. And I didn't screw a lot of skanks along the way (okay maybe few skanks here and there...).azanon said:
I kept track back in college because me and a buddy from my frat were competing against one another. But we didn't just screw the first girl that looked at us. We made sure that we were as careful as possible (and this led to AFC behavior on my part at times).
Honestly, I lost count after 50 because I don't think that the number of women a man sleeps with makes him a DJ. Ironic statement from someone whose count was up to 50, eh? But I can't help myself when all these hot women throw themselves at me...
If you want to fvck guys, just fvck. But use common sense when deciding whom to fvck.
And as Rollo would say, "It's not how many women you've fvcked. It's how many women want to fvck you."
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
41, but remember, it's not about how many women you've ƒucked, but how many more WANT to ƒuck you.
This poll comes up every few months. I'm surprised that almost 10% have had 100+
Anyway guys don't feel bad if you are below 100 it's quality not quantity that counts.
There are plenty of guys who have only slept with a few women and are now happily married to the love of their life
Anyway guys don't feel bad if you are below 100 it's quality not quantity that counts.
There are plenty of guys who have only slept with a few women and are now happily married to the love of their life