after they broke up with u and u found out they cheated on u. do they contact you afterward to say sorry or they just never contact u again? and if they do how long it took them to say sorry or wutever. do they usually talk to u after they break up with the other guy or the guy dumps her?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how many ex gf have contacted you back after cheating on u?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Does it get any sadder than this? This is a hall of famer.pacman254 said:
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I was thinking the same thing. Pacman, (sigh), when a female cheats on you, that is the ULTIMATE sign of disrespect. You need to move on, dude. It is natural for women to want to keep you dangling on a string just to make sure she "has" you. But in most cases, it is not genuine. The minute you give in, she will bang him (or "them") again.( . )( . ) said:Does it get any sadder than this? This is a hall of famer.
Be strong. Be a man. Move on and get more AND BETTER women.
I can think of two who did.pacman254 said:
The first was some years after the event. I'd not spoken to her or seen more than a passing glance of her since. In fact I barely recognised her (She had bloated!) She turned up on my doorstep out of the blue with her fiancee. I was introduced, we chatted a bit and I invited them in. Whilst I was making them coffee she came through to the kitchen, and told me she had always regretted our "breaking-up," hugged me and asked if we could still "have something" together. I didn't need to pause for thought and had no qualms at all about saying - no-way!
The other was more difficult. This was my ex-fiancee, she had a breakdown and got into a mass of self-destructive behaviour. To the point where she told me she'd been cheating on me and I said I'd had enough, packed-up and left. We were living together but thankfully I'd not quite given-up my own house, so at least I had somewhere to go! A couple of weeks later, my housephone rang and a whimpering voice on the line said "can I come home now" - So I said yes. She was in a bad way psychologically but seemed to stabilise over the next few days & started seeing her medics, so I let her stay. Then she rallied and became like her old (good) self again, became very apologetic and I made the mistake of agreeing to give it another go. So we cleaned-up the flat and moved back. That lasted just a few months before her troubles started and she really made a mess of herself. There was no going back for me now but within a few weeks she was sending me letters and calling again, so because of her illness and her eventually moving to another town (she stayed a few nights in this period but always got the spare bed), I remained in touch for a few more months and visited regularly. As much for her parents benifit and to try to keep on top of the financial mess she had left us in. Eventually she found some other mug to so I stopped and didn't pick-up/reply any more. I hear occasionally about how she is now and sometimes see her about but I've only once been face to face with her - I just smiled, said hello and walked-on.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I've never had one ADMIT it. Well, as far as I know, only my BPD ex has cheated on me, and she will deny it to the grave, despite witnesses, and other overwhelming evidence. She apologized for everything else though, including stuff she 'wishes she could tell me, but can't.' Wonder what THAT could be?
I've been cheated on a couple times, and the only one i still talk to i hardly even see. After she cheated a cussed her out, called her a *****, and we HATED each other. Then after a couple years we started talking again cuz it's not something i give a fvck about anymore. Just move on.