how many days to wait?

[WingS]

ok i hit on this chick ive seen around for a while and i got her number...how many days should i wait before i call her? ive heard 5 days but that seems forever...she'll probably forget who i am!....

 

[Da Game]

Use your best judgement. 2-3 is classic. 5 is slightly longer. I don't think it really matters all that much though - if she's interested, it won't matter when you call.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by WingS
ok i hit on this chick ive seen around for a while and i got her number...how many days should i wait before i call her? ive heard 5 days but that seems forever...she'll probably forget who i am!....

4-7 days

it should always be more than 2. if you dont think so you need somethin to fill your time with

if she forgot who you were then you didnt do a good enough job

she prolly wont forget

 

[WingS]

Re: Re: how many days to wait?

Originally posted by drixsa
4-7 days

it should always be more than 2. if you dont think so you need somethin to fill your time with

if she forgot who you were then you didnt do a good enough job

she prolly wont forget

it was only a 1 minute talk to get her number.... do the days include the day you picked her up on?

 

[drixsa]

NO.

but why only 1 minute?

it takes a quarter of that to write her # down

try to spend more time to figure out if she is even worth while

 

[AmgineEX]

RE

Well, you subtract 2 days if you talked to her roughly 2.5 hrs ago. But if during that 2.5 hrs, she called, then you would add 9.1x10^2 seconds. However, if she's a SHB, then you should take those minutes, convert them into years and divide by pi, ONLY do that if you're sure she's atleast a 9.98 SHB or better though, otherwise it'll definately doom your relationship. /sarcasm off.

Nothing's concrete, experiment, it's different with each girl. Remember, it's all a number game, sooner or later you'll win. Might be your first try, might be the millionth, you never know.

 

[drixsa]

thats a good point,

but now WingS read the bible

 

[WingS]

Originally posted by drixsa
thats a good point,

but now WingS read the bible

ive read the "must reads" 3 times already

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by WingS
ive read the "must reads" 3 times already

Good, now go read the rest.

 

[WingS]

this was the convo...

ME: hey...do you know my mate ben? (bull**** story)
GIRL: No....
ME: oh because ive seen you around....you go to blah blah high school right!?
GIRL: No i got to blah blah high school
ME: Oh Ok...i see you round here a lot....
GIRL: Yeh i come here a lot
ME: So can i have your number
GIRL: you want it?
ME: yeh
*i take number*
ME: so you busy this week?
GIRL: No not really
ME: ok i'll call you soon then...bye
GIRL: bye

 

[drixsa]

never say when your gonna call

you dont need to, you didnt get her number becuase you just like her handwriting...hopefully

it doesnt matter if she is free this weekend. chances are if she is free on the weekends she is even more availible during the week days

 

[drixsa]

oh yea nd the bible is so much more than just the MUST READS

read everything there

for good tips for the beginner read just about everythin by Anti-Dump. you can search his user name

 

[Evil-Rom]

$10 bucks says she'll flake.

 

[WingS]

Originally posted by Evil-Rom
$10 bucks says she'll flake.

flake?

i didnt say WHEN im gonna call and i didnt say this WEEKEND i said WEEK...

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted by WingS
flake?

i didnt say WHEN im gonna call and i didnt say this WEEKEND i said WEEK...

Doesn't matter when you call, she'll still flake.

Just look at what you said when you "got her number".

 

[WingS]

Originally posted by Evil-Rom
Doesn't matter when you call, she'll still flake.

Just look at what you said when you "got her number".

why would she "flake".....dont even know what that means.......i asked if she was available...she sed yeh...to me that is code for "im free if YOU want me to be" and i said i will call her soon...she may be thinking "oh he'll call me 2moz"....then theres no phone call....she gets worried.....day after.......no phone call......she is now depressed that im out of her life......then next day....BAM! phone call "hey wassup...soz i didnt call earlier but ive just been busy...u wanna go out tommorow...?"

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted by WingS
why would she "flake".....dont even know what that means.......i asked if she was available...she sed yeh...to me that is code for "im free if YOU want me to be" and i said i will call her soon...she may be thinking "oh he'll call me 2moz"....then theres no phone call....she gets worried.....day after.......no phone call......she is now depressed that im out of her life......then next day....BAM! phone call "hey wassup...soz i didnt call earlier but ive just been busy...u wanna go out tommorow...?"

It's funny how you think that's what she's thinking.

"Flake" means she will come up with some excuse or reason why she cant go out.