"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how many days to wait: chick from POF

pyros

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Hello,

I chatted with a girl from POF. She actually initiated it. SHes pretty cute, so after an hour or so, I got her number and suggested to meet this week to what she said ok. Besides, I made a little sexual joke and she bought it, and after I got her number and we texted on whatsapp, she made another subtle sexual joke too.

How many days do I wait till I call her to set the date?
This happened last Sunday, I was thinking about calling her this evening (Tuesday), to set a date for Thursday or Friday.

Tips?
Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Solomon

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pyros said:
Hello,

I chatted with a girl from POF. She actually initiated it. SHes pretty cute, so after an hour or so, I got her number and suggested to meet this week to what she said ok. Besides, I made a little sexual joke and she bought it, and after I got her number and we texted on whatsapp, she made another subtle sexual joke too.

How many days do I wait till I call her to set the date?
This happened last Sunday, I was thinking about calling her this evening (Tuesday), to set a date for Thursday or Friday.

Tips?
Thanks.
*SIGH*

When I meet women whether it's online or in person I set the date ASAP. I don't have time to lollygag. are you trying to bang these chicks or be their friends? you should be setting the date up whilst you're getting the number in any situation
 

pyros

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Solomon said:
*SIGH*

When I meet women whether it's online or in person I set the date ASAP. I don't have time to lollygag. are you trying to bang these chicks or be their friends? you should be setting the date up whilst you're getting the number in any situation

First time I read what is in bold.
 
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